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Too Afraid To Ask

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I’m too afraid to ask because it seems really stupid or pathologising or whatever, but are these normal aspirations? (lemmy.ml)
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Or narcissistic behavior like some people have said?

From my friend Jaiden that I posted about, just curious.

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[–] AuroraGlamour@lemmy.ml 4 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

They can care to an extent, like “Oh my God, I’m so sorry!” but really just go back to how great they want to be. They believe people who call it unrealistic are “abusing them”, and don’t really care much when I say they’re already better because im not famous or well-known.

She also always calls herself kind, wants to be feared by Christ and God, etc.

[–] happybadger@hexbear.net 5 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

wants to be feared by Christ and God

If I'm reading this right, I'd recommend fleeing immediately. That's a very strange thing to say to another person or believe internally.

[–] Assian_Candor@hexbear.net 3 points 2 weeks ago

Or you could try to talk her into doing a luigi