Clean up as you go when cooking. You're probably dicking around most of the time, anyway. If you don't cook, learn. Also, lawyer up, delete Reddit, and dump food waste in the compost.

[–] toomanyjoints69@lemmygrad.ml 2 points 2 years ago (1 children)

No! You're giving them bad advice. Let the dishes pile up!

I love when that happens because then I can do all the dishes and my husband will pet my hair and tell me I did a good job. You're bad advice will take that from me if he reads this. Delete! >:(

[–] barsoap@lemm.ee 2 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

Or maybe you shouldn't conceptualise affection and kindness in a transaction-based manner. Your husband is not a pet machine that you throw dish coins into, stop objectifying him (unless he likes it I ain't kink shaming).