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Welcome to femcel memes. A place where anybody can post memes that fit the vibe.

Warning: We have a tendency to post things that may at times come from a self-deprecating perspective or things that are funny coming from another queer person. This space will always be a safe place for transfems, non-binary people, people with a feminine gender expression (GNC or otherwise) or anybody else in the LGBT Community to come together and share about our experiences but we truly feel that laughing about the sometimes silly and embarrassing parts the queer experience can help bring us together. We never mean offense or harm in anything posted but rather they are satirical takes coming from queer people.

A note about 'Egging': Our community is mostly made up of transfem individuals, and as such most memes posted will be posted with the intention of having a transfem perspective. However, regardless of gender identity, all feminine presenting individuals are welcome here. Whether that means you're NB, GNC, transmasc, or any other identity, you are welcome here. It is not our intention or goal to invalidate these identities. If something makes you uncomfortable, please feel free to report the post and I will address your concerns on an individual level. For more information regarding the problems with 'Egg-culture', please see Here.

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[–] recklessengagement@lemmy.world 117 points 1 day ago (4 children)

This. I'd rather die alone than risk even the slightest possibility of making someone else uncomfortable.

why yes I am in therapy how did you know

That's what I thought until I shot my shot and missed, until the redirected it back onto themselves.

IDK, sometimes you just gotta be a little naughty and see how they react. Maybe they'll be just like you and take it right on their face.

[–] green_copper@kbin.earth 31 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I feel the exactly the same but am not in therapy. ... Maybe I should consider therapy.

[–] BigDiction@lemmy.world 17 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Yeah the fear of imposing on someone. There are plenty of assholes, but lots of perfectly nice people just communicate what they want/need/feel and it’s okay. Not just talking about dating.

Then whenever you take your risk and do it, and get rejected, you retreat back to try it again in 6 months.

Edit: I have zero problem and welcome people being honest, and adjust accordingly. But when I try to do that it rarely works the same way. Could just be how I communicate, but it is a struggle.

[–] LePoisson@lemmy.world 6 points 1 day ago

I think the thing that makes people uncomfortable in this kind of scenario is if you don't stop when they ask you to. Or you just refuse to take no for an answer. But our species would cease existing if nobody ever was made uncomfortable at some point by flirting because everyone's lines and desires are on a spectrum. You can say the exact same thing the same way to two different folks and one will turn around and slap you for it and the other will get on their knees for you. Humans are weird.