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I think I still have some grief from all of them. I don't see it as a bad thing though, just a measure of how much love I've had in my life. On a practical level, I think it can help you to see what you've got with the person you're with when you can remember what it is to lose it.
I think I see grief as an aspect of love tbh. It's painful but sweet and beautiful all the same.