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That's like the humble brag of toxic traits
"My issue is i care about other people's feelings"
It's pretty toxic to be too shy for self care. A la The Giving Tree. That tree had issues.
Not on this level though, this is like the nice version of a white little white lie. Except instead of being an inconsequential amount of deception, it's making someone else feel better about themselves on a regular basis.