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I've had to stop buying tofu, it's too expensive. I also used to buy myself a cake from the local fancy bakery once or twice a month but had to jib that

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[–] dicksteele@lemm.ee 9 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Not really any lifestyle changes. Bills have gone up and rent but just means I save a bit less. I don’t eat out or drink at bars anyway, prefer being boring on my own.

[–] cheesymoonshadow@lemmings.world 4 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Boring is definitely subjective. I was just telling my husband last night as we were watching a live stream from some bar in Florida, and there was a bachelorette party in the crowd, how imagining myself in that group, I'm already bored just 5 minutes in. Would much rather be home with my own comforts and entertainment.

[–] dicksteele@lemm.ee 2 points 3 days ago (1 children)

It is. I think because I’ve had so many people tell me I’m boring for enjoying solitude and more peaceful activities that I feel the need to accept it as boring. For me it’s very enjoyable.

[–] cheesymoonshadow@lemmings.world 1 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Amen to that. Here's to quiet evenings.

Btw, totally random but your username is tripping me out because I knew someone with the last name of Steele and he was quite...gifted in that department.

[–] dicksteele@lemm.ee 2 points 3 days ago

I’m not. It’s just a name I randomly thought of because I was reading a detective novel at the time haha