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I just recently had some awful DM harassment from a transphobic idiot who told me that I was pretending to be trans. It was dealt with but I'm still left wondering. Why do some people believe that we would pretend to be trans? What do they think someone would gain by "pretending" to be trans. It just seems so stupid because I've dealt with so much oppression and people invalidating me my whole life, and yet they still think I'm pretending to be trans for some some reason...? Why? What the fuck does someone gain from pretending to be trans? This makes no fucking sense whatsoever.

Sorry for this rant, I really needed to get this off my chest.

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[–] kaklerbitmap@lemmy.world 6 points 15 hours ago* (last edited 15 hours ago)

Just to throw this out there - you do not need to have surgery to be trans or to deserve validation

ETA: not trying to knock the comic, just wanted to stress the point, as I've met plenty of people who seen to believe if you've not had surgery then you're still not really trans