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DO NOT COMMENT ON LINKED POSTS. I am NOT OOP. Original post by u/finishercar1 in r/AmIOverreacting

Posted with permission from OOP.

trigger warnings: racism, stalking, ableism

AIO? My friend WENT CRAZY when the guy she likes made a drawing of me. WARNING: unhinged rant + racism. (Context in post) - Jan 3rd 2025

So I’m 24f and she’s 24 as well. For some context she is white and I’m mixed Japanese/Brazilian. There’s this guy we both know through a mutual friend (we met him end of summer I think?).

She is at his place a lot and told us they’re dating but when he was asked he said she’s just a friend.

I’ll be honest, he’s a confident guy but when we first met he was always awkward when we interacted. I presumed he didn’t like me so I was surprised when he got me a bday gift last month.

After that we started hanging out more and actually became good friends. I like collecting rocks as a hobby (since childhood) and he is curious about it. A few times we would meet up and he even gave me rocks he thought I’d like. It was very thoughtful and sweet

My friend (F) started asking me about him and always made shady comments. For example she would imply that I’m not his type, that he’s not interested in me etc. They were very snarky remarks but very low key and subtle. One time he said that my eyes are stunning and she started laughing hysterically and called him a sleazy liar. At this point I was still under the illusion that she’s a friend so I thought she was just messing around and being funny.

A few days ago he surprised me with a drawing he made of me which was ofc very sweet! It looked great and was one of the nicest things I’ve ever received.

She started acting VERRRRY weird once she found out. Like she would give me weird looks and even mocked him. She talked shit about him behind his back and called him pathetic.

At one point we had this text exchange and she basically revealed her true self. I’m shocked but at the same time not shocked.

Am I overreacting with my responses? Don’t get me wrong, Ik she’s terrible but imo my replies were vicious and I know she’s probably still crying snot and tears as we speak 🤌🏽

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Text transcription:

Ex-F: Hey sis 💕 I say this with good intentions cuz I don't wanna see u get hurt but [guy friend] Isn't into u like that. So it's best u just forget about him and move on.

Like I really care about u

So I don't wanna see u get into shit, like u deserve so much

OOP: loooool what the f

I'm not even into him what the fuck are you waffling on about 😭😭 I'm laughing

Ex-F: I can see ur trying to be close with him and it's embarrassing cuz I feel bad for u ngl. Ur not his type and that's okay girl.

OOP: LMFAOOOO who's trying to get close? Are you drunk??

IS THIS ABUT THE DRAWING HE MADE OF ME LOOOOL

Ex-F: That drawing means nothing...he does things cuz he feels bad for u

U just don't see it

OOP: We're good friends and he's obviously a sweet guy. What exactly did I do wrong tho? I'm tryna understand. Why are you so pressed?

Ex-F: Listen, u guys aren't that close and he's obviously not interested in u. U know how many times I've been to his place? We've been fucking since like October. Y'all never even hugged 💀💀💀 he's awkward around u cuz he doesn't find u attractive. Also no offence but he's only into tall white girls...have u seen his exes? They're literally 10/10 model types. So I'm more of his type. Not some ghetto Barbie hoodrat...men like him wanna take home a classy lady not some porn star 💀

OOP: LOOOL ghetto barbie hood rat sounds hot actually. And I'm confused because why are you calling me a porn star? Isn't that a good thing LMAO

It's funny how you showed your true, racist self just because you feel threatened

Ex-F: I'm not racist at all. I'm just telling you the truth and protecting your hard. Everything he does is calculated and he's only use u because ur so easy

*heart

He feels bad for u cuz he probably thinks ur autistic lol

U collect rocks while I play with his balls who is winning? B

We are not the same

He's basically sweet to u cuz do autistic things like that. It's not genuine

OOP: Why would you make fun of someone for having a hobby Imfao?? What are your hobbies? What do you do when you're not sleeping with him to get commitment?

You've been flinging your weary pussy @him since October in hopes of getting scraps of commitment

{I'm tired, boss meme}

^ your vagina

And then you have the audacity to be mad at me for something I didn't even do WTF. And I don't even like him like that as I said. Why are you bringing this petty shit to me and not him? You're sick

Ex-F: We had sex over 40+ times

He actually likes me but I can't say the same for u tbh. What have u guys done together? lol nothing. And the fact he made that ugly drawing means nothing. Like I said he feels bad for U cuz ur giving autism. 🤷‍♀️

Every time he texts u there's a high chance he's balls deep in me. Mind ur business bitch

OOP: WHAT

You're actually not normal GET HELP I BEG YOU

Ex-F: He wants white babies...not some jap latina mutts

OOP: lol

Remember the other day when you were crying about having lines on your forehead? You have them because you're racist white trash so your evil spirit shines through lol It's time for a new round of Botox Band fillers sis your age is starting to show at the ripe age of.......24!!!!! 🥱 LMAO get fucked you racist psycho

Oh wait you already have been by HIM AND ITS STILL NOT ENOUGH FOR A RELATIONSHIP?! OH MY!!

⚰️

🌹

Ex-F: Wow

I can't believe u actually said that

This friendship is dead

Ur a cruel and sick and demented bitch

Never text or talk to me again

U were given up for adoption cuz ur bio parents could see u would grow up to be a evil home wrecking slut whore

Back the fuck off my man and mind ur ghetto business

Smelly ugly whore

OOP: Go to sleep you illiterate Nazi

update in comments - Jan 4th 2025 (one day later)

She didn’t show him the texts but told him we had a fight. She told him SOOO many lies about me chat. She told him I have STIs (I don’t), that I had two abortions in the past (??? I’ve never had an abortion in my life??) and that my vagina smells bad. (My 🐈‍⬛ smells heavenly thanks). She says she knows it smells bad because we fell asleep on the same bed once and she claims she couldn’t sleep the whole night due to the smell. lol.

Oh and she claims I have a baby daddy who is in jail for murder LMAO.

He reached out to me to ask wtf is going on and I showed him the texts. Btw she claimed that she was very nice/considerate and that I had a total meltdown. She said that she was mostly joking anyway and that I overreacted. She completely manipulated the situation to make herself look like a saint.

She also cried a lot and told everyone in the group chat that I broke her heart and made her cry. SHE POSTED A CRYING SELFIE. So ofc everyone’s initial reaction was wtf, what did you do to her?

When I showed him the texts he called me and asked me if I’m okay and apologised. I had to go bc I was heading off for some training and he said he wanted to talk about it when we have time.

If you want lessons in tarnishing someone’s image y’all should take inspiration from her. I’ve never had someone go to such great lengths to make me look so bad 😩

Some more context in another comment - Jan 4th 2025 (posted just after previous update)

STORY TIME

She and I went to a themed party some months ago. This is before he entered the picture btw.

I was Chel (El Dorado) and she was Natalie Portman’s ...

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