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There, children, see what happens when you give people the benefit of the doubt instead of brainlessly attacking them to fuel your savior complex?
What can happen. I think this was many years ago, and I don't know anyone who doesn't know what transgender means now. Usually the people acting like this are doing so in bad faith. I'm glad this one ended well, but it's notable because it's an exception, not the norm.
Even if just for that one time out of a hundred, it still pays to engage in good faith if you aren't sure.
Personally I almost always do, but it doesn't cause me personal emotional distress to be told that trans people aren't real since I'm cis. If I had to constantly deal with that, I don't know if I'd treat it as generously.