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Hello new Lemmy friends!

Word on the street tells us our community is regularly making it the all page. While this is very cool news to hear, we can see how the sudden emergence of our posts in your feed might feel jarring and probably raises some questions. And also how, without knowing the backstory, our community might appear less than virtuous, so here’s a very brief introduction which hopefully will clear a few things up.

The woman we’re discussing is a body positive influencer and media personality who has gained fame and wealth by lying, manipulating, exploiting her children for content, plagiarizing BIPOC creators and blaming her BIPOC content editor for it (thereby ruining her career), among other things. Her fraudulent behavior is no different (I’d argue worse) from the likes of Jay Shetty (google him if you don’t know who he is or what he did). She’s the latest in a long line of grifting influencers who are abusing their power, taking advantage of their position and exploiting their followers. The difference is that she’s Canadian. Our laws around social media and advertising aren’t as clear (and where they are she’s disobeyed them), add to that, our mainstream media has protected her from those who’ve tried to expose her grift and silenced/intimidated anyone who’s tried to speak out.

Our Reddit sub was taken down due to reports of copyright infringement, which is unfounded and categorically untrue as no one ever tried to steal her work and pass it off as their own. The mods have made an appeal. While at first glance it may seem like we’re just “shitting on her” the sub has been more devoted to investigation and posting proof of her lies than just bitching for the sake of bitching. The reality is that she’s hurt, manipulated and let down a lot of people. She stole intellectual property and employment, caused mental distress and has repeatedly told lies to boost engagement and profit off her audience, so people are understandably upset that their voices are being silenced.

We’re grateful to have been welcomed so kindly by so many of you, and to those sticking around to watch the drama unfold, we’re glad to have you!

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[–] Glowpop@lemmy.ca 17 points 2 weeks ago (5 children)

Love watching everyone else’s content and seeing where she is far off in the background, if she is even present. Always off-camera or lingering way off in the back. Seeing her in videos of everyone dancing at the bar last night is hilarious. Everyone looks normal and is having a good time and she is always talking and seems to be distracting everyone, hanging off someone in that ‘ahh I’m nervous/don’t know what to do tee-hee’ way, or she doesn’t participate properly and is just sort of standing there swaying. I wonder why she didn’t want to learn how to square dance, probably knows she’d look like a moron. It’s not a competition but she is outshined here in every way by everyone else and I think she knows it. She really is playing the videographer card here, taking sooo many videos of everyone else, probably acting like she’s doing them a great service, when in reality she would have the camera pointed at herself this whole time. Everyone taking pictures and videos of the whole group dancing, including everyone, pointing out the community/girlhood of it all. Then TBP posts a photo where everyone is blurry except herself, pointing and looking ridiculous while calling it the perfect photo. Of course it is, it’s just about her in that photo. Seeing all this content really shows you she has no confidence in the slightest. If she would just try to have fun and participate it wouldn’t be so obvious. I always find her tone towards Becci to be passive and bordering on unkind, but she must be so glad to have her here to attach herself to, posting content where she is not just reluctantly acknowledging her.

[–] GumboYaYa@lemmy.ca 18 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

All of that is an act as well! Everyone…look at me all alone! Remember in middle school the girl who would alwaya run and isolate herself and then all the girls would rally around her to see what was wrong. This is what that energy is giving.

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[–] Rarepotato@lemmy.ca 17 points 1 week ago

Also, who wears a an ultratight spandex outfit when it’s that hot out?! For fuck’s sake that's when you want a loose dress or whatever. Let your skin breathe and get some airflow. I don't ever want to hear her say she has sensory issues with clothing. She proves that wrong daily.

[–] Glowpop@lemmy.ca 16 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)

lol Turdass strategically not in the reel with all the other ladies, covering herself up with a shirt when she is in one, leaning forward contorting/covering herself in pictures. 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄

[–] Poofluencers@lemmy.ca 15 points 2 weeks ago

I’m convinced she practices poses at home on the daily. Sad sack.

[–] MoonChild@lemmy.ca 15 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)

She made sure to drape her shirt in front of her in this pick and then holds it there after the hug ended. This is the woman who tells everyone to just wear the bikini!

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[–] Selfabsorbedbarbie@lemmy.ca 14 points 2 weeks ago

Imagine always being so self conscious...yuck!

[–] Glowpop@lemmy.ca 16 points 1 week ago (5 children)

Little nightmare fuel for everyone, lol

[–] Richbynameonly@lemmy.ca 15 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I seriously wonder what her ex husband thinks of her and these shenanigans

[–] Poofluencers@lemmy.ca 17 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Best part - I bet he doesn’t think of her!

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[–] GumboYaYa@lemmy.ca 15 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Massiter Botox used to slim the jawline, in conjunction with overfilling the lips can also cause gaps on the outer edges of the mouth.

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[–] Whaaambulence@lemmy.ca 14 points 1 week ago

Her mouth literally looks like a dogs mouth

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[–] Glowpop@lemmy.ca 16 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

After 8 hours, 85 comments on her post from the launch that were basically just recycled story photos. After 2 days, 59 comments on her post about how late she is (like every trend) to heatless curls. You would think someone with 2.5 million followers would yield more comments on posts!!! 🤡

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[–] Richbynameonly@lemmy.ca 16 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

Same same 🤷🏻‍♀️

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[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 15 points 2 weeks ago (4 children)
[–] Glowpop@lemmy.ca 14 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (1 children)

Just saw the whole video, she is such a loser purposely avoiding the bulk of people with their phones out. Like what are you doing lingering way over off to the side, on the other side of the fence from everyone, out of site, almost on your own? We know. It must be exhausting being her.

[–] Poofluencers@lemmy.ca 15 points 2 weeks ago

She can’t mingle - she only wants to be the center of attention. I’m sure she plays it off as being anxious so that her groupies surround her with support but she just thinks she’s the 👸of 💩island.

[–] facialSwelling@lemmy.ca 14 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

She's so bland. She looks nothing like the supermodel she posted during lockdowns.

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[–] Glowpop@lemmy.ca 15 points 1 week ago (3 children)

How does someone who does so little and has so few responsibilities and gets to lounge at their comfortable home so much look this rundown and exhausted?

[–] Rarepotato@lemmy.ca 16 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

Unhealthy in every way,

I suspect a heavy phone addiction where she checks it every few hours while “sleeping”

No connection with others

Living a lie and always having to protect said lies (always looking around/filtering/ scheming/ manipulating)

Always a victim

Tons of cosmetic work yet no nutrition or exercise

Steady diet of likes, comments, and views at ALL costs

[–] facialSwelling@lemmy.ca 14 points 1 week ago

She looks exactly like her mother. Especially when she can't alter the image.

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[–] Richbynameonly@lemmy.ca 15 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Idiot birdshit tagged KB in two birthday stories and KB didn’t share them 😅

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[–] Poofluencers@lemmy.ca 15 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (2 children)

Imagine bird 💩 putting something that breaths ahead of herself. She simply can’t. If they wanted to adopt they could. Bird travels but she only takes her content husband and content kids with her about once a year. I guess there were a few cheer comps. She does nothing around her home to nurture people or pets. Maybe Shame doesn’t want to take care of the dog. If we could hear from the fly on the wall in this home I bet it would be hella interesting!

[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 17 points 1 week ago (3 children)

This whole video was soooooo performative. Like you said, if she desperately cared about this dog and keeping it , she would find a way to do so. But she’s just putting on the waterworks to make you feel sorry for lil miss career woman who literally only leaves the house every day to drop her kid at NK’s house for babysitting while she sits at home taking underwear selfies all day.

I am glad that the dog will find a home better than hers though and be away from her constantly putting a camera in its face. But her wishing for its new family to make a space so she can continue to watch over him, not everyone wants to put everything online Birdie!

[–] GumboYaYa@lemmy.ca 16 points 1 week ago (1 children)

This is also juvenile and irresponsible. This is the reaction a child would have not quiet understanding the foster was temporary. And the timeline comes at no surprise. She wasn’t told she would have the dog for a year. All she could handle of this dogs care is a few weeks at most. Things and beings have a shelf life with this one! Sure you will miss the dog after being in your home for a few weeks. But this? Nonsense! I truly don’t know what my family would do if I did this by myself with a phone. They are a tough crowd! 😂 This reaction is irrational. Not sure she’s a good fit for fostering if when the dog leaves you’re in emotional distress enough to document it. Just take care of the animals you already have ffs. 🤦🏼‍♀️

[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 16 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Such a good point. She probably hasn’t even helped lemon understand that this dog is there temporarily and prepare her for the moment the foster dog leaves the house. She only cares about her feelings and how it’s gonna affect her, she’ll make everyone feel so bad for her and only her when the time comes.

[–] Whaaambulence@lemmy.ca 15 points 1 week ago (1 children)

She most def hasn't explained this to L and she will film and exploit the poor child's emotional breakdown when it's time for the dog to go

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[–] Glowpop@lemmy.ca 14 points 2 weeks ago (7 children)

Could have done this in the 4-star hotel but instead chooses to put her phone down on the ground outside. Imagine seeing her doing this in the street dressed all “fancy” lol

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[–] Poofluencers@lemmy.ca 14 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

And this is why we boycott the companies that pal around with influencers. The peasants get to comment for a chance to win! Birds besties get freebies. And clearly this company is stupid enough to not even process this. I don’t have any Ninja products but if I did I’d be arguing with that company for spending my hard earned money on their appliances.

[–] facialSwelling@lemmy.ca 14 points 2 weeks ago

Briony is SUPER cheap. She posts lego sets that she wants and writes " @lego how can I get this"... at the store idiot, like everyone else. They all are white trash.

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[–] Rarepotato@lemmy.ca 14 points 1 week ago (2 children)
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[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 14 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (5 children)

What an imbecile. OMFG she is brain dead.

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[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 14 points 1 week ago (5 children)

Happy Friday! Another runaway staycation for Princess.

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[–] Poofluencers@lemmy.ca 14 points 2 weeks ago (27 children)

Bird the self proclaimed queen, the trailblazer, the reason why we keep showing up in our bodies looked like the most self conscious woman at the P&P event. So many woman actually looked like they put on the suit and just resumed life, getting in the pool and having fun. And then there is bird 💩 with baggy clothes and a strategically placed cover up.

There is nothing wrong with how bird looks in these photos but they are both far from what she shares on line to get 🔥. Short forehead, low brows, regular non cartoon sized eyes and flat hair. Clearly that mouth possess no natural qualities. Her size - why would anyone give a F - I don’t, but the way she captures her own image and shares it is gross and harmful.

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[–] Rarepotato@lemmy.ca 14 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (3 children)

Is a backyard full of chicken poop/ bacteria and other dog poop even safe? I hope he gets adopted by someone who can give him proper care. (This post was 2 days ago)

[–] Poofluencers@lemmy.ca 14 points 1 week ago (1 children)
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[–] Glowpop@lemmy.ca 14 points 1 week ago (5 children)

Lol spotted loser sad sack at the pool party. The way she sits for a body positivity social media influencer makes me want to yell at her to sit tf up properly.

Also she totally waited for everyone to leave before she asked someone to film this for her, so no one would record her doing it, I’m sure

[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 14 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (4 children)

For some reason she was there before everyone else showed up. This pic is a gem.

[–] Poofluencers@lemmy.ca 17 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Joanna described the party as a swimwear launch featuring TBP but none of the guest mentioned bird, just Knix in their tags. She’s definitely lost her touch.

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