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[–] Narwhalrus@lemmy.world 3 points 2 years ago (2 children)

It does seem like some servers have specific niches, so if you're really interested in a specific servers niche using that instance would prevent you from having to sync those communities with your instance.

I'm new, so someone correct me if I'm wrong.

[–] surrendertogravity@wayfarershaven.eu 3 points 2 years ago (1 children)

I think you’re right! It can be nice to have an active local feed with topics you’re interested in, so that’s a good reason to pick a topical instance (eg mander.xyz or slrpnk.net).

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[–] MouseWithBeer@iusearchlinux.fyi 3 points 2 years ago

A friend owns it and it has a funny domain. Bonus of it being smaller is that it didn't have any performance issues yesterday/today.

[–] TheCatfish@lemmy.ml 3 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (1 children)

•Lemmy.ml - Signed up here first, was recommended to it as a general place to sign up to

•Lemmy.blahaj.zone - Egg memes, blåhaj memes, just memes

•Lemmy.world - Handy for extra world news communities

•Lemmynsfw.com - Do I need to explain. This is under a different name, but I've kinda used that name over on the other place and I'm slowly bringing my content over (plus new stuff)

I only use one and four regularly

[–] finn_der_mensch@discuss.tchncs.de 3 points 2 years ago (3 children)

You know that you can follow your desired communities from other servers, all with e.g. the lemmy.ml account?

[–] Caaaaarrrrlll@lemmy.ml 2 points 2 years ago

Some like to keep their dirty from their public identity

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[–] LeHappStick@lemmy.world 3 points 2 years ago

It has the word world in the name, sounds bigger.

[–] Elkaki123@vlemmy.net 3 points 2 years ago

The one I use doesn't block other instances, although I probably will block the same instances and people that big instances already block, I want to be the one to make that choice and shape the content I see.

[–] voidf1sh@lemm.ee 3 points 2 years ago (2 children)

I've got accounts on 4 different instances just to see what things are like. Sometimes I want to see all sorts of posts, sometimes I want a feed of just LGBT-positive stuff, sometimes I just want to get off, different accounts on different instances for different things :)

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[–] monobot@lemmy.ml 3 points 2 years ago (3 children)

Others did not exist back than.

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[–] jordanlund@lemmy.one 3 points 2 years ago

Heard lemmy.ml and lemmy.world were being overwhelmed.

[–] zav@lemmy.world 3 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Literally just picked the biggest one to maximise the content I see

Rn it matters a bit, wont in a few weeks tho i think

[–] god@sh.itjust.works 2 points 2 years ago

Why won't it? Do you think updates will make the fragmentation of content better in a few weeks?

[–] Deez@lemm.ee 3 points 2 years ago

I have has a journey through a few instances.

I first applied to Lemmy.ml because I was interested in open source. I also applied at Lemmy.one and Beehaw because they were recommended on join-lemmy.

I got accepted at Beehaw. Then they defederated from Lemmy.world and sh.it. Stayed on Beehaw for a while but found a few communities on world that I couldn’t join, so decided to sign up to world.

World was having performance issues and I realised I could no longer interact with the Beehaw communities and people I had started talking with.

Then found lemm.ee I like the name, it hadn’t been defederated by any other instances, had good up time, was on the latest Lemmy code, and the admin seemed to know what they were doing, so joined that one. I don’t see myself moving again any time soon.

[–] hoodlem@hoodlem.me 3 points 2 years ago

I run my own private instance so I am in control over my own data.

Tbh, I don’t think it matters what server you choose. Lemmy.world, Lemmy.ml, and Beehaw seem to be the big ones so picking a server that federates with those would be ideal.

[–] Watcher@discuss.tchncs.de 3 points 2 years ago (2 children)

The list of blocked instances made me switch from feddit.de to the current instance I'm using.

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[–] ilovetvshows@lemmy.ml 3 points 2 years ago

Google search. I had no clue about multiple instances. Search lemmy on Google and first link was for lemmy.ml domain so that's how I am here.

[–] Addfwyn@lemmy.ml 3 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

I have two. I have this one (lemmy.ml) as my broad-access instance. My other is lemmygrad, but as that is a bit more widely blocked I keep this one still. That one is used for most of my politics, and this one is my more general interest. It's kind of nice to have different communities died to different user registrations.

As to why those two in particular, I am a Marxist-Leninist so...yeah.

[–] esty@lemmy.ca 3 points 2 years ago (3 children)
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[–] Fizz@lemmy.nz 3 points 2 years ago

I saw a local instance for new Zealanders and joined.

[–] Seraphin@pawb.social 3 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

Because I'm a furry. obligatory OwO

[–] SapphicFemme@lib.lgbt 3 points 2 years ago (1 children)

One of the few only lgbt friendly servers

[–] omgnvq 3 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Are many other servers proactively anti-lgbt?

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[–] Owell1984@lemmy.ml 3 points 2 years ago

It's the first one I found and many others were filled with germans and I said "Nein"

[–] minthenry@lemmy.one 3 points 2 years ago (2 children)

Not seeing anyone mentioning lemmy.one and I'm starting to think I made a bad choice.

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[–] blazarious@mylem.me 3 points 2 years ago

Set up the server myself. For me, that’s part of the fediverse experience.

[–] Wirlocke@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Trans, pan, 196, and Blahaj is friend.

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[–] moreeni@lemm.ee 3 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

I'm into general instances and also a long time user of Fediverse, so I know 10-200 user instances work best. That's why I picked the first one with not too many and not too little users (the join-lemmy page only showed 50 new users when I registered, damn)

[–] Grishaix@feddit.de 3 points 2 years ago
[–] russjr08@outpost.zeuslink.net 3 points 2 years ago (2 children)

Well, I started my instance so it only makes sense that its also my home!

As for why I started an instance, I've always liked self-hosting stuff as its been one of the best ways I learn how stuff on the internet works, even more than I have learnt from doing some programming in my spare time. So it was an obvious move for me since I wanted to know more about how ActivityPub worked.

Originally I wasn't really planning on having open registration on my instance (otherwise I would've picked a better domain name, a bit late for that now) however as I saw Lemmy pick up pace, and the larger servers were starting to have issues, I figured that the best way I could give back was at least offer to share the load.

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[–] loaf@sh.itjust.works 3 points 2 years ago

Picked it for the name, stayed because of the community. A lot of super nice folks here on sh.itjust.works.

[–] OsakaWilson@lemmy.world 3 points 2 years ago

The first I tried was Lemmy.ml. I applied and didn't hear back. So I joined Lemmy.world and registered immediately.

[–] digdilem@feddit.uk 3 points 2 years ago

Feddit.uk - I figure regionality has benefit in keeping loads more spread, plus it hosts some good communities and a cute name.

[–] ComatoseSquirrel@lemmy.ml 2 points 2 years ago

I'm on lemmy.ml because my application was ignored (or not accepted, I don't know) by the smaller instances I've applied to.

[–] tom@lmmy.tvdl.dev 2 points 2 years ago

I want to be in control over my own data. So I spun up my own instance

[–] tho@lemmy.ml 2 points 2 years ago

it was the only one when i joined

[–] fruitywelsh@lemmy.ml 2 points 2 years ago

I joined lemmy.ml a while ago because following cool opensource projects is my jam.

[–] SaintWacko@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago (1 children)

lemmy.world because it was top recommended. In the future I might change to either host my own or use my wife's ex-husband's instance.

[–] usernotfound@lemmy.ml 2 points 2 years ago

Is that a roundabout way of saying you're getting a divorce? Does she know?

[–] OnionFutures@vlemmy.net 2 points 2 years ago (2 children)

I was planning to sign up at BeeHaw because it seems pretty active and with high quality discussions. When I heard that it had defederated from Lemmy.ml and Lemmy.world I decided not to sign up to any of those three as I would rather have access to all of them (though I can understand why BeeHaw defederated). So I just went with VLemmy.net as it was one of the recommended ones (on join-lemmy.org and the Awesome-Lemmy-Instances GitHub) and seems to be very broadly federated.

I don't think it matters too much, though I think if you were signed up on the same instances as all your favourite communities it would be a bit more convenient.

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