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She literally called me at the time of the appointment to tell me she can't see me. She was so apologetic, but was like "I absolutely can treat you, but I'm not allowed by your insurance". Fuck this country.

Update: I went to urgent care. Before leaving home, I called to be sure they would accept my insurance (Aetna). They said yes.. After arriving for my appointment, they told me they do not accept my insurance. I will simply leave without paying.

Final Update: I can understand that that differences in physical biology demand different attention. That's not what I'm complaining about. It's the way it's set up. I was told that at my appointment. Why not just refer me to a specialist? The website could've even just referred me to urgent care (yes, my insurance requires a primary care physician's referral for urgent care, according to the urgent care facility). But, no, their goal is to obfuscate and irritate until the patient gives you and pays out-of-pocket.

I was able to receive care at a cost I could not afford. I won't discuss what I had to do to "find" the money to pay for care and prescriptions. That being said, the condition I was diagnosed with was more serious than a simple infection, and I'm glad that I saw a doctor. I need further treatment and just hope I can get insurance to cover any of it.

If you're an American reading this, please consider ways to get involved in organizing in support of Medicare For All in your community. Here is one resource I have found. We don't need to live like this. We deserve better. Stay safe and healthy, friends.

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[–] Totonyus@lemmy.world 3 points 2 years ago (1 children)
[–] dystop@lemmy.world 3 points 2 years ago

urinary tract infection

[–] tigaente@feddit.de 3 points 2 years ago (3 children)

That's disgusting if you ask me.

Also, you have to be 18+ for getting a contraception appointment. I guess teens in the US are also having sex like teens in other parts of the world and would very much need access to contraceptives, right?

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[–] TendieMaster69@sh.itjust.works 3 points 2 years ago (1 children)

I'm never paying into health insurance in the US again, fucking scam of a shit system.

[–] Rhabuko@feddit.de 2 points 2 years ago

That's so fucked up! I'm sorry OP.

[–] markon@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago

This is so ridiculous! Our system is beyond broken. If you're sick you almost have to scrape by before Medicaid limit or pay out the ass and have excellent job with very good insurance. It's so fucked up. This is truly nutty.

[–] Alpagu@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago (11 children)

I'm living in Turkey. All health care is free.

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[–] goldenbug@kbin.social 2 points 2 years ago (1 children)

I am sorry this is happening to you. I cannot even phantom why this is the case, anyone could please explain to me why UTIs are not covered for men?

[–] borkcorkedforks@kbin.social 2 points 2 years ago

There is a documented thing insurance companies have started doing where they deny claims until you appeal them. AI was being used somehow to determine which cases.

[–] SchrodingersDude@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago

BREAKING: Men do, in fact, pee

[–] cedarmesa@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)
[–] GandhiTheDerg@pawb.social 1 points 2 years ago

Land of the free

[–] iceycake@lemmy.ml 1 points 2 years ago

Have you try other online services (no insurance need) like GoodRX care? I don’t see you need 16 or older for UTI in their options.

[–] FuzzyDoublePumper@kbin.social 1 points 2 years ago (2 children)

Hypothetically, in an emergency situation, you could get fish antibiotics from your local pet store. Not the best idea but an untreated infection isn't good either.

[–] VanillaGorilla@kbin.social 2 points 2 years ago

This sentence is so American, it started to look for oil.

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[–] nameless_prole@kbin.social 1 points 2 years ago

Yes, I'm in the US

Yeah, I don't think you needed to say that considering we're the only developed nation in the world that has a system where this happens.

[–] CynAq@kbin.social 1 points 2 years ago (1 children)

The extreme profit oriented business culture of the US combined with the human nature of bandwagons make these sort of disgusting practices possible.

Corporations are justified, by default, in anything they can do to increase profit, and will do so until there's enough public backlash to negate the amount of profit that practice makes.

The public backlash is tied to the social momentum the idea has. Because profitability is the default idea to be promoted, you can't say something like "don't do this obviously profitable thing because it's bad for people" unless there's enough people around you who'll get on the bandwagon. If suddenly some influential person or a critical number of schmucks say the opposite, then everyone is defending the corporation's, not only the right, but the duty to be profitable.

It's an unpleasant way to live, really, but people are creatures of habit and won't easily go against the culture they grow up in.

[–] Kaiser@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago

Unfortunately, insurance is insulated from public backlash because it’s not something that is easy to shop around for. Many people get insurance though work and have limited options to start with and a specific time window for make plan changes. When all options equally suck there isn’t an affordable place to switch your business too.

This sort of change would need to be legislated, but public opinion has very little impact on public policy.

Healthcare is broken in the US and no one with any real power to make change will do anything about it because it’s far too profitable the way it is now.

[–] UnicornKitty@lemmy.world 1 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (2 children)

Since nobody addressed this, if you (anyone reading this) have a bladder infection, go to the women's section of any pharmacy. Usually somewhere near pads/tampons, and find a box of this blessed relief. It has cleared up all but the most stubborn infections I've had.

Azo

[–] we_were_never_here@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago

just FYI to anyone reading this, this stuff is indeed magic pain relief, BUT it's not an antibiotic and you still need to see a doctor. UTI's can spread and it doesn't feel very good. I would up in the ER getting IV antibiotics over Thanksgiving one year. it sucked.

[–] throwaway38575061@lemmy.world 1 points 2 years ago

You're a lifesaver!

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