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The more I think about it, it seems that long-term happiness is something many people spend their lives seeking OR they believe it’s something they used to have and lost.

That makes me wonder if we are truly ever happy? Or if it’s something that is always just out of reach (in the future or in the past).

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[–] kenblu24@lemmy.world 1 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)
[–] kava@lemmy.world 1 points 2 years ago (2 children)

Happiness is irrelevant. You do what you need to do your duty to support yourself and your family first, then your fellow man second.

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[–] mojo@lemm.ee 0 points 2 years ago

Yes, fulfillment, stability, and a healthy social life

[–] lynny@lemmy.world -1 points 2 years ago (12 children)

Yes. Many religious people including myself feel happy. That's one method.

Others find a purpose in their life to drive toward or dedicate themselves to. Be it art, friends, family, work, learning etc.

I would suggest looking at what you want from life, and asking yourself what the first step is to achieving that. I find that I'm at my happiest when I'm keeping on track with my goals.

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