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For me it feels like breaking up with someone after many years. At the same time, I feel a bit dirty mentioning the name in the post title.

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It's complicated. joined in 2018 right before they introduced new reddit and even back then there was a stigma reddit was "getting bad". However, reddit has been the best place for me to discover new things and the niche communities and interests were really great. I use an extension (that will surely die alongside the 3rd party apps) to find reddit comments associated with any youtube video that made my browsing really great.

The thing that makes me most upset is how they pulled out the rug from so many people and then acted like it was the people on top of the rug's fault it was pulled.

[โ€“] potatoseus@lemmy.world 3 points 2 years ago

I like that it's back to small communities. Like Reddit once was.

[โ€“] inmatarian@beehaw.org 3 points 2 years ago

I've been on giant, corporate owned services for so long, I kinda forgot what it's like to be out in the cottage industry of small websites.

[โ€“] Lexica@sh.itjust.works 3 points 2 years ago

I'm gonna miss the posts, communities, and history. But Reddit itself, not really. It's just one big, bloated fourm site with a reputation that was already on a downward slope. Hopefully Lemmy will grow to be even greater, seeing as it's in the hands of the users than a company.

[โ€“] W0lf@sh.itjust.works 3 points 2 years ago

Not really. I didn't comment much, hell I've had an account over ten years and barely interacted with any community. Really, I'd just use it as a news source for my interests. Or to kill time on breaks at work and shit. Probably will miss some subs but my theory is they will pop up elsewhere. Perhaps not ran by the same people but that might be a good thing.

[โ€“] harbo@lemmy.ml 3 points 2 years ago

Not really, just annoyed. I used reddit for just over 10 years, and I was getting sick of it for the last few years anyway. I am really excited about Lemmy, I really hope it catches on. I got on the fediverse with Mastodon at the end of last year and Iโ€™m just so excited about the potential of it.

[โ€“] jesse_mccree@kbin.social 2 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Honestly Iโ€™ve been looking for an alternative. I miss the days where there many places to go to now just some major player have the entire market share

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[โ€“] ComputerSagtNein@lemm.ee 2 points 2 years ago

Yup, I loved reddit. But they changed and idk if there is any going back to normal.

[โ€“] bquintb@midwest.social 2 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

Of course, change is hard. But I'm excited to scope out and learn new technology like Lemmy. Decentralization is the future, and it's pretty exciting.

[โ€“] stuntman782@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago

I miss Relay haha such a great app

[โ€“] petrichorbreeze@lemmy.ml 2 points 2 years ago

It does suck a little, but I will say that once I had my main account on reddit banned, it felt like I realized I spent so much dumb effort trying to up my karma, that I took a step back and thought, wow I'm addicted to this and it's ultimately meaningless. I still post on reddit, but definitely more constructive, and the Fedeverse is much better since it's decentralized, and there's no central karma aggregate if that makes more sense.

It only really sets in as I'm scrolling through the replies. I'm going to miss all the communities I was a part of, especially r/otomeisekai and r/withesvspatriarchy. And I'm also going to miss the ui. I didn't have any social media until relatively late in their development process, so I'm not used to the look here yet.

[โ€“] RandomVanGloboii@feddit.it 2 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Reddit has made me discover many things in 5 years of using it, and I would have never become a Linux user without it. Nevertheless, platform come and go, and it's time to move, as usually happens once in a while. It's not wise to get affectionate to websites

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[โ€“] fubo@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

Annoyed, really. I'm reminded of how Usenet went to shit in the early 2000s due to major servers utterly failing at spam mitigation.

As they say, "this is why we can't have nice things."

Kind of - I'd just hung around because they hadn't given me a single, strong reason to leave. 3rd party apps getting crushed was the kick up the ass I needed

[โ€“] tallwookie@lemmy.ml 2 points 2 years ago

more irritated than anything - mostly because there arent a lot of lemmy apps on android yet. it'll get better in ~6 months

[โ€“] Overplay8276@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago

I had reddit filtered to the eyeballs to avoid the random drama and bullshit that seemed to infect the larger subs. I was hugely into Ruqqus before it imploded, and have always held out hope for an alternative to take off. The key now is for the blackout to actually be a lasting protest, and not just a "uwu we stopped for 2 days but we're all back now"

[โ€“] MRPP@sopuli.xyz 2 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Yeah, I think that loosing access to great communities like OSR, Boardgames, RPG, Horror and horrorlit will hurt, but I'm hoping to find new ones too, with fresh new people and new ideas.

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[โ€“] stoned_blahaj@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago

Yeah, reddit has always been my favorite type of social media. Especially being able to choose your own communities and being free of most algorithm shenanigans is what made me love it. I hope they turn around, and otherwise I hope Lemmy becomes more active and popular. It would suck to lose such an unique type of social media.

[โ€“] mook@lemmy.ml 2 points 2 years ago

Um. Yeah. Taking a break from it for a few days during the blackout. Checking out the fediverse and am loving lemmy, pixelfed, and mastodon. Just joined kbin today but am a bit confused about it because I haven't found a mobile app that supports it. There are a ton of subreddits that I am missing incredibly, but you know it'll be all right. I'm hoping lemmy grows a bit, but not too big. I just enjoy a string of random posts.

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