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I'm sorry if this isn't allowed, I just need to vent and get some things off my chest. I'm 34 years old, and I'm about to hit my 1 year mark form coming out. I've been on HRT for almost 4 months now. I just wanted to get my thoughts out and I think it might be helpful for someone.

For so much of my life I've hated existence. I hated looking in the mirror, I constantly felt depressed and angry and anxious at everything and nothing at the same time. I didn't have a social life and my dating experience was (and still is) about as real the Easter bunny. The only thing I had going for me was that I excelled in my job, but only because it was my escape from the rest of my existence.

Than a year ago I had a complete mental breakdown and realized I was trans. I'm not going to lie, it was a complete nightmare at first. On one hand, it made sense and I knew I couldn't deny it, but on the other hand processing it was so hard. I felt lost, like I didn't know who I was, what I was, and mostly I just felt alone. I had friends I tried to talk about this stuff with, but I could never convey what I was going through because it's not something that they could even understand. I'm sure a lot of people here can relate.

I think there are 2 experiences every trans person has. What it's like to look in a mirror, and what it's like trying to describe that feeling to someone else.

But things got better. After a lot of introspection about who I am as a person I've been able to accept that I'm trans. It still feels weird to say and think about, but every day it gets easier. For the first time I'm happy with myself, and I feel like I'm becoming the person I was always meant to be. I'm excited for changes and I can't wait to see who I continue to become.

But it's not all sunshine and rainbows. I'm in the USA, and that kind of says everything. I'm also proud of my job, but I'm afraid that if I came out I would be fired. I work for a company in a red state, and my job title is "Principal Network Engineer". I'm afraid that if I came out I would lose so much respect at my job. I could deal with getting fired for screwing up or doing something stupid, but because I'm trans would kill me.

It's been a long crazy year, and I'm exhausted. This past year I've been forced to face myself in a way most people never could. I've pushed myself to change who I am almost completely. I've gone from a place of stability and simplicity to a harder existence that forces me to evolve and change almost non-stop and at a break-neck speed. Despite how afraid I am, how hard things get, it's completely worth it. I know that I couldn't not be trans, but even if I could somehow wave a wand and not be trans, I don't think I would. I'm proud of what I've had to face and how far I've come, and that fight means something to me. This past year, not only did I learn that I'm trans, but that I'm strong enough to be trans, and no matter how bad things are or will get, at least for now I'm still standing.

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The Lemon Edouard Manet, 1880

All recipes are vegan or easily converted

Lemon drinks:

Chef John - State Fair Style Lemonade

Adam Ragusea - Lemonade, six slightly different ways

Adam Ragusea - Homemade citrus sodas that 'glow'

Tasting History - The Sweet History of Lemonade

Middle Eats - How Egyptians stay cool in summer

Lemon drop cocktail

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Lemon Posset

Lemon Mousse

Lemon italian ice

Lemon Cake

Lemon Meringue Pie

Lemon Curd

Lemon thumbprint cookies

Whipped Lemon Shortbread

Lemon poundcake

Korean Preserved Lemon syrup

lemon icing

Basbousa

Candied lemon peels

Lemon sponge cake

lemon entree:

Lemon Cappellini pasta

Lemon butter sauce

Lemon garlic pasta

Lemon potatoes

Greek lemon rice

Lemon rasam

Lebanese Lentil Soup

User recommended recipes:

King Arthur Flour - Lemon-Glazed Pound Cake

Townsend's 18th century Lemon Cream recipe

Lemon pig decoration

lemon resources:

How to Get 8x as Much Juice From One Citrus?

Lemon peel powder

How to store lemons

Afroman - Lemon Pound Cake (OFFICIAL MUSIC VIDEO)


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Edit: Bruja has suggested that this is the original source:

https://vsemily.tumblr.com/post/689087385425903617/dont-play-defense

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I just really don't know how to feel or what to do or how to figure this out for myself so if anyone else has been in my shoes I'd really love some advice

[For context I'm in my 30's]

Sooooo growing up I knew that trans people existed, and I knew about androgyny which I was very fond of, but it wasn't up until my mid 20's that I had learned about genderfluidity or nonbinary identities. Once I heard it described, it just clicked with me and immediately I felt that that is what I was, nonbinary. This was around the time that gay marriage became legal in California, so really these terms were not widely used at all outside of queer communities. As a very young child most of my interests aligned with my gender assigned at birth, but even into 2nd and 3rd grade it was very obvious that I was more interested in hobbies and things typical of the opposite gender, and this has remained static. The things I liked, the ways I dressed for the most part, my choice in friends, my sexuality, the way I talk and kinda move around the world was more reflective, in my mind, of the "opposite gender". There were characteristics, however, that up until learning that I could be a third, secret gender (lol), were in alignment with my AGAB, so I never identified as anything but.

Now I have identified as nonbinary/agender/transmasc nonbinary for close to 15 years, but over the past few years I've been feeling like I am really not actually anything other than cisgender. Being misgendered by others still REALLY bothers me...But due to my experiences in the world and how I've always been perceived, I really do resonate with the experiences of my AGAB, especially when it comes to experiences of gender based violence. I feel like in my brain I slip and call myself my AGAB more now than I used to. I'm in relationships with people where it looks like a straight relationship. I don't really belong to any queer community, so I'm used to people constantly misgendering me, and it just feels like I'm always perceived as my AGAB even when gendered correctly.

I don't take hormones, I've never had any type of gender affirming surgeries, and I generally don't want to change my body. I have body dysmorphia, but that I think is more due to societal expectations of what my body is supposed to look like/chronic verbal abuse focused on my body. I have thought about hormones, I have wondered or wanted my body to align with my gender more but never to the point of feeling that I need to change it. But at this point, I feel like I should resign myself to just being cis. ADMIT to being cis....and I just feel like a fraud. I still bristle against the idea, but I just feel like I'm faking it, and have been faking it because no one else sees me as what I want to be seen as....But that's the thing, do I just WANT to be seen as someone else, or NEED to be? What's the difference? I feel like I would NEED to take hormones, or want/need surgery to really ACTUALLY be who I feel I am...Especially since I've had more and more thoughts that feel cis??? Is the only way I can describe it. I feel like my identity is not much more than a choice of pronoun, and I just feel like I'm cosplaying or something....So I don't really know what the fuck I am or how to figure it out. It's just one more thing to perseverate about and I wish I could just not think about it. But I don't know how to get there.

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Hey yall, I'm reposting this here from the transenby liberation comm. There's alot more traffic on this comm, and I want more queer folk to be aware of these resources.

Edit: btw this post was about a year old, so some of the information is outdated.

cross-posted from: https://hexbear.net/post/279079

Thank you to: @emi@lemmy.blahaj.zone for the amazing Resource Collection Thread @Dislodge3233@feddit.de for the International HIV PReP @fadingembers@lemmy.blahaj.zone for the Hair loss recovery for Transfems guide


Comment with your favorite resources I missed here, I plan to revisit and edit with additional resources as time goes on.


Crisis Lines
Trevor Project Connect to a LGBTQ understanding crisis counselor 24/7, 365 days a year, from anywhere in the U.S. It is 100% confidential, and 100% free.
Trans Lifeline Trans Lifeline’s Hotline is a peer support phone service run by trans people for our trans and questioning peers. Call us if you need someone trans to talk to, even if you’re not in crisis or if you’re not sure if you’re trans.
Suicide Hotlines and Prevention Resources Around the World Hotlines available internationally
RAINN removed, Abuse & Incest National Network) RAINN removed, Abuse & Incest National Network) is the nation's largest anti-sexual violence organization. RAINN created and operates the National Sexual Assault Hotline (800.656.HOPE, online.rainn.org & rainn.org/es
LGBT Youth Hotline LGBT YouthLine is a *2SLGBTQ+ youth-led organization that affirms and supports the experiences of youth (29 and under) across Ontario.
988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline The 988 Lifeline provides 24/7, free and confidential support for people in distress, prevention and crisis resources for you or your loved ones, and best practices for professionals in the United States. REPOST DISCLAIMER: they can send cops to your house without your permission, so I cannot in good faith recommend this source


Resources

Trans Lifeline Resources More than just the hotline, they have a great page linking to many resources, including but not limited to... ID Change Library, Community-Based Crisis Support Resources, A Binding Guide for All Genders, Microgrants for some legal and medical fees, and much more you can easily search.

The Trans Resistance Network Formed to ensure the survival of gender diverse people and families through strategic coordination of resources for relocation, alternative systems of gender-affirming care, mutual aid, and community defense.

Erin’s National Informed Consent Clinics Map Erin Reed’s informed consent map lists every informed consent hormone therapy clinic.

Rainbow Passage Providing transportation for individuals in harm's way, with a focus on bringing them to the Sanctuary States and Cities. Safely escorting individuals to communities with the necessary legal, financial, educational, and medical resources to meet their needs.

Rainbow Railroad Rainbow Railroad is a global not-for-profit organization that helps at-risk LGTBQI+ people get to safety worldwide. Based in the United States and Canada, we’re an organization that helps LGBTQI+ people facing persecution based on their sexual orientation, gender identity and sex characteristics

Elevated Access Elevated Access was launched in 2022 in response to the extreme healthcare bans being enacted in state legislatures. We are a non-profit organization that enables people to access healthcare by providing flights on private planes at no cost. Our volunteer pilot network transports clients seeking abortion or gender-affirming care across the United States.

Transgender Map This free website shows how to make a gender transition.It tells about gender identity and gender expression, as well as the social, legal, and medical ways to make a transgender transition.

Hudson's FtM Guide This Guide is intended to provide information on topics of interest to female-to-male (FTM, F2M) trans men, and their friends and loved ones. Non-trans men have also found the pages on men's grooming and clothing to be helpful. Transgender, cisgender, intersex, non-binary, genderqueer, questioning, and "just plain folks" are all welcome.

Gender Spectrum Gender Spectrum is a national organization committed to the health and well-being of gender- diverse children and teens through education and support for families, and training and guidance for educators, medical and mental health providers, and other professionals.

Trans Health Project The Transgender Legal Defense & Education Fund's Trans Health Project aims to ensure that all transgender and non-binary people can access the trans-related health care that they need.

Trans Resources Trans-Resources aims to help transgender, non-binary, and other gender non-conforming people find resources where they live. Our goal is to be a directory of advocacy organizations, legal resources, support & social groups, and other resources that servce the trans community.

LGBTQ Healthcare Directory The LGBTQ+ Healthcare Directory is a project of the Tegan and Sara Foundation and GLMA – Health Professionals Advancing LGBTQ+ Equality. It is a free, searchable database of all kinds of doctors, medical professionals and healthcare providers who are knowledgeable and sensitive to the unique health needs of LGBTQ+ people in the USA and Canada.

UK Gender Kit Gender Construction Kit, the UK guide to changing things that are linked to gender.

ICKY_MTF_GUIDE I’m Icky also known as Ashley I believe that info about medically transitioning should be super easy to attain and not require 100 google tabs and a medical degree to understand.

Gender Dysphoria Bible The purpose of this site is to document the many ways that gender dysphoria can manifest, as well as the numerous forms of gender transition, in order to provide a guide for those who are questioning, those who are starting their transgender journey, those already on their path, and those who simply wish to be better allies.

Beehaw.org LGBTQ+ Wiki Parts of this page have been adapted from the Global Transgender Resources Registry, the Tildes ~lgbt wiki (to which one of our admins was a previous contributor), and Emi’s blahaj.zone thread

FtM Packer+ Spreadsheet Includes information on Binders, Packers, and More

HRT Coffee information about HRT, and sourcing, bodily autonomy is a human right. That means everyone has a right to choose what does or does not happen to their body. Not being updated please refer to: diyhrt cafe

nominal.naomi's research document A great document containing research documents related to trans health and more

/r/asktransgender wiki Provided below are a list of general resources to help everybody out.

Check out What_Religion_R_They's DIY post



gathered fromhttps://lemmy.blahaj.zone/ , lemmy.world , hexbear.net, and beehaw.org (warning beehaw is lib central)

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Dia daoibh a chairde!

Have you ever found yourself wanting to read a good book about queer feminism but you weren't sure where to look?

I have spent more hours than I would care to admit studying, writing about, and educating on the topic of gender and sexuality, and I've realized that I could lend a bit of my educational development work to you kind folks by prepping this here reading list.

I hope you can find something to interest you--and I would love to talk about any of the works listed. The categories are not hard and fast, with many books belonging in several of them, but I figured there had to be some way to organize this, so bear with me. I also tried to narrow inclusion to books relating to queer/feminist studies.

1. Introduction to FeminismThe Second Sex - Simone De Beauvior

This Sex Which Is Not One - Luce Irigaray

In the Beginning, She Was - Luce Irigaray

An Ethics of Sexual Difference - Luce Irigaray

Speculum of Other Women - Luce Irigaray

The Political Economy of Women's Liberation - Margaret Benston

Women and Economics - Charlotte Perkins Gilman

The Power of Women and the Subversion of the Community - Mariarosa Dalla Costa and Selma James

The Dialectic of Sex: The Case for Feminist Revolution - Shulamith Firestone

I am Woman: Native Perspective of Sociology and Feminism - Lee Maracle

I Myself am a Woman: Selected Writings of Ding Ling - Ding Ling

Living a Feminist Life - Sara Ahmed

Philosophical Trends in the Feminist Movement - Anuradha Ghandy

Witches, Witch-Hunting, and Women - Silvia Federici

Compañeras: Zapatista Women's Stories - Hilary Klein

Chinese Femininities/Chinese Masculinities: A Reader - Susan Brownell and Jeffrey N. Wasserstrom

Women in the Sky: Gender and Labor in the Making of Modern Korea - Hwasook Nam

Outsiders Inside: Whiteness, Place, and Irish Women - Bronwen Walter

2. Intersectionality and Black FeminismSister Outsider: Essays and Speeches - Geraldine Audre Lorde

This Bridge Called My Back: Writings by Radical Women of Color - Cherríe Moraga and Gloria E. Anzaldúa

How We Get Free: Black Feminism and the Combahee River Collective - Keeanga-Yahmatta Taylor

Women, Race, and Class - Angela Y. Davis

Women, Culture, and Politics - Angela Y. Davis

Race, Class, and Gender: An Anthology - Margaret L. Anderson and Patricia Hill Collins

Intersectionality - Patricia Hill Collins and Sirma Bilge

Emerging Intersections: Race, Class, and Gender in Theory, Policy, and Practice - Bonnie Thornton Dill, Ruth Enid Zambrana and Patricia Hill Collins

Black Feminist Thought: Knowledge, Consciousness, and the Politics of Empowerment - Patricia Hill Collins

Liner Notes for the Revolution: The Intellectual Life of Black Feminist Sound - Daphne A. Brooks

3. Trans* and Gender DiversityThe Transfeminist Manifesto - Emi Koyama

Transfeminism: A Collection - Emi Koyama

Gender Outlaw: On Men, Women, and the Rest of Us - Kate Bornstein

Gender Outlaws: the Next Generation - Kate Bornstein and S. Bear Bergman

Read My Lips: Sexual Subversion and the End of Gender - Riki Wilchins

Trans Liberation: Beyond Pink or Blue - Leslie Feinberg

Transgender Warriors: Making History from Joan of Arc to Dennis Rodman - Leslie Feinberg

Beyond Gender Binaries: The History of Trans, Intersex, and Third-Gender Individuals - Rita Santos

Whipping Girl: A Transsexual Woman on Sexism and the Scapegoating of Femininity - Julia Serano

Excluded: Making Feminist and Queer Movements More Inclusive - Julia Serano

Sexed Up: How Society Sexualizes Us, and How We Can Fight Back - Julia Serano

Outspoken: A Decade of Transgender Activism and Trans Feminism - Julia Serano

Invisible Lives: The Erasure of Transsexual and Transgendered People - Viviane K. Namaste

Sex Change, Social Change: Reflections on Identity, Institutions, and Imperialism - Viviane K. Namaste

My Words to Victor Frankenstein Above the Village of Chamounix: Performing Transgender Rage - Susan Stryker

The Transgender Studies Reader - Susan Stryker and Stephen Whittle

The Transgender Studies Reader 2 - Susan Stryker and Aren Aizura

Transgender History: The Roots of Today’s Revolution - Susan Stryker

We Want It All: An Anthology of Radical Trans Poetics - Andrea Abi-Karam and Kay Gabriel

Imagining Transgender: An Ethnography of a Category - David Valentine

Second Skins: The Body Narratives of Transsexuality - Jay Prosser

You've Changed: Sex Reassignment and Personal Identity - Laurie J. Shrage

In a Queer Time and Place: Transgender Bodies, Subcultural Lives - Judith Halberstam

How Sex Changed: A History of Transsexuality in the United States - Joanne Meyerowitz

Assuming a Body: Transgender and Rhetorics of Materiality - Gayle Salamon

The Lives of Transgender People - Genny Beemyn and Susan Rankin

Side Affects: On Being Trans and Feeling Bad - Hil Malatino

Trans/Love: Radical Sex, Love & Relationships Beyond the Gender Binary - Morty Diamond

Queer and Trans Madness: Struggles for Social Justice - Merrick Daniel Pilling

Please Select Your Gender: From the Invention of Hysteria to the Democratizing of Transgenderism - Patricia Gherovici

Gender: An Ethnomethodological Approach - Suzanne J. Kessler and Wendy McKenna

Travesti: Sex, Gender, and Culture Among Brazilian Transgendered Prostitutes - Don Kulick

Beyond Emasculation: Pleasure and Power in the Making of hijra in Bangladesh - Adnan Hossain

Badhai: Hijra-Khwaja Sira-Trans Performance Across Borders in South Asia - Adnan Hossain, Claire Pamment and Jeff Roy

Beauty and Power: Transgendering and Cultural Transformation in the Southern Philippines - Mark Johnson

Changing Ones: Third and Fourth Genders in Native North America - Will Roscoe

4. Understanding IntersexMyths of Gender: Biological Theories About Women and Men - Anne Fausto-Sterling

Sex/Gender/Biology in a Social World - Anne Fausto-Sterling

Sexing the Body: Gender Politics and the Construction of Sexuality - Anne Fausto-Sterling

Hermaphrodites and the Medical Invention of Sex - Alice Dromurat Dreger

Intersex - Catherine Harper

Bodies in Doubt: An American History of Intersex - Elizabeth Reis

Making Sex: Body and Gender from the Greeks to Freud - Thomas Walter Laqueur

Contesting Intersex: The Dubious Diagnosis - Georgiann Davis

The Spectrum of Sex: The Science of Male, Female, and Intersex - Hida Vilori and Maria Nieto

Body Guards: The Cultural Politics of Gender Ambiguity - Julia Epstein and Kristina Straub

Queer Embodiment: Monstrosity, Medical Violence, and Intersex Experience - Hil Malatino

Critical Intersex - Morgan Holmes

Fixing Sex: Intersex, Medical Authority, and Lived Experience - Katrina Karkazis

Intersex Matters: Biomedical Embodiment, Gender Regulation, and Transnational Activism - David A. Rubin

Intersex Rights: Living Between Sexes - Nikoletta Pikramenou

Transgender and Intersex: Theoretical, Practical, and Artistic Perspectives - Stefan Horlacher

Expanding the Rainbow: Exploring the Relationships of Bi+, Polyamorous, Kinky, Ace, Intersex, and Trans People - Brandy L. Simula, J. E. Sumerau and Andrea Miller

Challenging Lesbian Norms: Intersex, Transgender, Intersectional, and Queer Perspectives - Angela Pattatuchi Aragón

5. Queer Theory and PhilosophyGender Trouble: Feminism and the Subversion of Identity - Judith Butler

Bodies That Matter: On the Discursive Limits of Sex - Judith Butler

Undoing Gender - Judith Butler

Performativity and Performance - Andrew Parker and Eve Kosofsky Sedgwick

Queer Phenomenology: Orientations, Objects, Others - Sara Ahmed

Deleuze and Queer Theory - Chrysanthi Nigianni and Merl Storr

Epistemology of the Closet - Eve Kosofsky Sedgwick

Tendencies - Eve Kosofsky Sedgwick

Touching Feeling: Affect, Pedagogy, and Performativity - Eve Kosofsky Sedgwick

Queer Performance and Contemporary Ireland: Dissent and Disorientation - Fintan Walsh

New Feminist Perspectives on Embodiment - Clara Fischer and Luna Dolezal

Volatile Bodies: Toward a Corporeal Feminism - Elizabeth Grosz

Sexual Subversions - Elizabeth Grosz

Time Travels: Feminism, Nature, Power - Elizabeth Grosz

Sexy Bodies: The Strange Carnalities of Feminism - Elizabeth Grosz and Elspeth Probyn

Beyond the Periphery of the Skin: Rethinking, Remaking, and Reclaiming the Body in Contemporary Capitalism - Silvia Federici

Thinking Through the Skin - Sara Ahmed and Jackie Stacey

Differences that Matter: Feminist Theory and Postmodernism - Sara Ahmed

Strange Encounters: Embodied Others in Post-coloniality - Sara Ahmed

Jacques Lacan: A Feminist Introduction - Elizabeth Grosz

A Rave at the End of the World: The Politics of Queer Hauntology and Psychedelic Chronomancy - Sean Michael Feiner

Queer/Early/Modern - Carla Freccero

6. Exploring SexualityThe Straight Mind and Other Essays - Monique Wittig

Cherry Grove, Fire Island: Sixty Years in America's First Gay and Lesbian Town - Esther Newton

Margaret Mead Made Me Gay: Personal Essays, Public Ideas - Esther Newton

Mother Camp: Female Impersonators in America - Esther Newton

Sapphists and Sexologists: Histories of Sexualities - Mary McAuliffe

Witchcraft and Gay Counterculture - Arthur Evans

Deviations: A Gayle Rubin Reader - Gayle S. Rubin

Conditional Spaces: Hong Kong Lesbian Desires and Everyday Life - Denise Tse-Shang Tang

Queer Comrades: Gay Identity and Tongzhi Activism in Postsocialist China - Hongwei Bao

Maid to Queer: Asian Labor Migration and Female Same-Sex Desires - Francisca Yuenki Lai

Oral Histories of Older Gay Men in Hong Kong: Unspoken but Unforgotten - Travis S. K. Kong

Tongzhi: Politics of Same-Sex Eroticism in Chinese Societies - Chou Wah-Shan

The Emerging Lesbian: Female Same-Sex Desire in Modern China - Tze-Lan D. Sang

Tongzhi Living: Men Attracted to Men in Postsocialist China - Tiantian Zheng

Queer Women in Urban China: An Ethnography - Elisabeth L. Engebretsen

Backward Glances: Contemporary Chinese Cultures and the Female Homoerotic Imaginary - Fran Martin

Queer Politics and Sexual Modernity in Taiwan - Xianyong Bai and Hans Tao-Ming Huang

Queer Sinophone Cultures - Howard Chiang and Ari Larissa Heinrich

Boy-wives and Female Husbands: Studies in African Homosexualities - Stephen O. Murray and Will Roscoe

Islamic Homosexualities: Culture, History, and Literature - Stephen O. Murray and Will Roscoe

Gender and Sexuality in Muslim Cultures - Gul Ozyegin

Gender and Sexuality in Modern Ireland - Anthony Bradley and Maryann Gialanella Valiulis

7. Cultural CritiqueCultural Sites of Critical Insight: Philosophy, Aesthetics, and African American and Native American Women's Writings - Angela L. Cotten and Christa Davis Acampora

The Dress of Women: A Critical Introduction to the Symbolism and Sociology of Clothing - Charlotte Perkins Gilman

Vested Interests: Cross-dressing and Cultural Anxiety - Marjorie Garber

Leatherfolk: Radical Sex, People, Politics, and Practice - Mark Thompson

Queer Pulp: Perverted Passions from the Golden Age of the Paperback - Susan Stryker

Women in the Chinese Enlightenment: Oral and Textual Histories - Zheng Wang

Desiring China: Experiments in Neoliberalism, Sexuality, and Public Culture - Lisa Rofel

Transgender China - Howard Chiang

A Society Without Fathers of Husbands: the Na of China - Cai Hua

Queer/Tongzhi China: New Perspectives on Research, Activism, and Media Cultures - Elisabeth L. Engebretsen, William F. Schroeder and Hongwei Bao

Queer TV China: Televisual and Fannish Imaginaries of Gender, Sexuality and Chineseness - Jamie J. Zhao

Queer China: Lesbian and Gay Literature and Visual Culture Under Postsocialism - Hongwei Bao

Queer Media in China - Hongwei Bao

Boys' Love, Cosplay, and Androgynous Idols: Queer Fan Culture in Mainland China, Hong Kong, and Taiwan - Maud Lavin, Ling Yang and Jing Jamie Zhao

Trad Nation: Gender, Sexuality, and Race in Irish Traditional Music - Tes Slominski

Celtic Women: Women in Celtic Society and Literature - Peter Berresford Ellis

The Irish Novel at the End of the Twentieth Century: Gender, Bodies, and Power - Jennifer M. Jeffers

Contemporary Irish and Welsh Women's Fiction: Gender, Desire and Power - Linden Peach

LGBTQ Visibility, Media and Sexuality in Ireland - Páraic Kerrigan

The Poor Bugger's Tool: Irish Modernism, Queer Labor, and Postcolonial History - Patrick R. Mullen

Women and the Irish Nation: Gender, Culture, and Irish Identity, 1890-1914 - D. A. J. MacPherson

Between Men: English Literature and Male Homosocial Desire - Eve Kosofsky Sedgwick

Smut: Erotic Reality/Obscene Ideology - Murray S. Davis

Veiled Sentiments: Honor and Poetry in a Bedouin Society - Lila Abu-Lughod

Writing Women's Worlds: Bedouin Stories - Lila Abu-Lughod

Gramsci, Migration, and the Representation of Women's Work in Italy and the U.S. - Laura E. Ruberto

Queer Bangkok: 21st Century Markets, Media, and Rights - Peter Jackson

8. Queer MarxismTransgender Marxism - Jules Joanne Gleeson and Elle O'Rourke

Transition and Abolition: Notes on Marxism and Trans Politics - Jules Joanne Gleeson

Lavender and Red - Leslie Feinberg

Caliban and the Witch: Women, The Body, and Primitive Accumulation - Silvia Federici

Re-enchanting the World: Feminism and the Politics of the Commons - Silvia Federici

Revolution at Point Zero: Housework, Reproduction, and Feminist Struggle - Silvia Federici

The Problematics of Heterosexuality: Marxism, Psychoanalysis, and Mother Nature - Hilary Manette Klein

The Politics of Everybody: Feminism, Queer Theory, and Marxism at the Intersection - Holly Lewis

Raya Dunayevskaya's Intersectional Marxism: Race, Class, Gender, and the Dialectics of Liberation - Kevin B. Anderson, Kieran Durkin and Heather A. Brown

Queer Marxism in Two Chinas - Petrus Liu

Finding Women in the State: A Socialist Feminist Revolution in the People’s Republic of China, 1949-1964 - Zheng Wang

Some of Us: Chinese Women Growing Up in the Mao Era - Xueping Zhong, Wang Zheng and Bai Di

The Women's Revolution: Russia 1905 - 1917 - Judy Cox

Social-Democracy and Woman Suffrage - Clara Zetkin

Lenin on the Woman Question - Clara Zetkin

The New Soviet Man and Woman: Sex-Role Socialization in the USSR - Lynne Attwood

Revolution, She Wrote - Clara Fraser

9. AbolitionAbolition. Feminism. Now. - Angela Y. Davis, Gina Dent, Erica Meiners and Beth Richie

Invisible No More: Police Violence Against Black Women and Women of Color - Andrea J. Ritchie

Arrested Justice: Black Women, Violence, and America’s Prison Nation - Beth E. Richie

We Do This 'Til We Free Us - Mariame Kaba

Abolitionist Intimacies - El Jones

Queer (In)Justice: The Criminalization of LGBT People in the United States - Joey L. Mogul, Andrea J. Ritchie and Kay Whitlock

Captive Genders: Trans Embodiment and the Prison Industrial Complex - Eric A. Stanley

Normal Life: Administrative Violence, Critical Trans Politics, and the Limits of Law - Dean Spade

Transgender Sex Work and Society - Larry Nutbrock

Revolting Prostitutes - Molly Smith and Juno Mac

Prostitution and Victorian Society: Women, Class, and the State - Judith R. Walkowitz

The Social Construction of AIDS Issues - Suiming Pan

Thinking Differently About HIV/AIDS: Contributions from Critical Social Science - Eric Mykhalovskiy and Viviane K. Namaste

Insurgent Love: Abolition and Domestic Homicide - Ardath Whynacht

Written on the Body: Letters from Trans and Non-Binary Survivors of Sexual Assault and Domestic Violence - Lexie Bean

Curative Violence: Rehabilitating Disability, Gender, and Sexuality in Modern Korea - Eunjung Kim

10. Anti-Imperialism and InternationalismTerrorist Assemblages: Homonationalism in Queer Times - Jasbir Puar

Class, Gender, and Neoliberalism - Nancy Lindisfarne and Jonathan Neale

Gender and Colonialism: A Psychological Analysis of Oppression and Liberation - Geraldine Moane

Gender and Imperialism - Clare Midgley

The Beginning and End of R-pe: Confronting Sexual Violence in Native America - Sarah Deer

Conquest: Sexual Violence and American Indian Genocide - Andrea Smith

Western Women and Imperialism: Complicity and Resistance - Nupur Chaudhuri and Margaret Strobel

Do Muslim Women Need Saving? - Lila Abu-Lughod

Anti-Veiling Campaigns in the Muslim World: Gender, Modernism and the Politics of Dress - Stephanie Cronin

Embodying Geopolitics: Generations of Women's Activism in Egypt, Jordan, and Lebanon - Nicola Pratt

Greater Than the Sum of Our Parts: Feminism, Inter/Nationalism, and Palestine - Nada Elia

Palestinian Women's Activism: Nationalism, Secularism, Islamism - Islah Jad

Israel/Palestine and the Queer International - Sarah Schulman

Queer Palestine and the Empire of Critique - Saed Atshan

Even a Freak Like You Would Be Safe in Tel Aviv: Transgender Subjects, Wounded Attachments, and the Zionist Economy of Gratitude - Saffo Papantonopoulou

Militarization and Violence Against Women in Conflict Zones in the Middle East: A Palestinian Case-Study - Nadera Shalhoub-Kevorkian

Decolonial Feminism in Abya Yala: Caribbean, Meso, and South American Contributions and Challenges - María Lugones, Yuderkys Espinosa-Miñoso and Nelson Maldonado-Torres

Positioning Gender and Race in (Post)colonial Plantation Space: Connecting Ireland and the Caribbean - Eve Walsh Stoddard

Ireland and the Magdalene Laundries: A Campaign for Justice - Claire McGettrick, Katherine O’Donnell, Maeve O'Rourke, James M. Smith and Mari Steed

Family and Gender in the Pacific: Domestic Contradictions and the Colonial Impact - Margaret Jolly and Martha Macintyre

Oceanic Encounters: Exchange, Desire, Violence - Margaret Jolly, Serge Tcherkézoff and Darrell Tryon

Maternities and Modernities: Colonial and Postcolonial Experiences in Asia and the Pacific - Kalpana Ram and Margaret Jolly

Paradoxes of Hawaiian Sovereignty: Land, Sex, and the Colonial Politics of State Nationalism - J. Kēhaulani Kauanui

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Hi everybody! My schedule has been really unforgiving, so I may or may not end up writing something and making changes to the post later in the week.

Regardless, I hope you all have a good week!


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Various thoughts:

  • Around 20 people weren't properly covered by the gender categories, obviously we're trying to be as inclusive as possible and a different approach will be tried next time

  • There were about 600 respondents, which gives us a accurate sampling of the active userbase. If you multiply any number by 3, you'll get a fairly accurate representation of the full userbase each week. This means there are around 800-900 people who don't identify fully as cis each week on this site.

  • Nearly 300 trans/gender diverse/questioning people unanimously agree that hexbear is an inclusive space

  • There was so much data on gender that I was really struggling to find a way to convey the data that wasnt a pie chart, graph, or an incomprehensible kalaeidoscope. If you have an idea on how to beautify the data, you can download the raw data here: https://pad.artemislena.eu/file/#/2/file/xzy4pck8on+oZp9yGRUIezR+/ - I further anonymized this data by removing time of response and any specific comments, I don't think it would be easy for anyone to figure out who is who.

  • There were a couple of text responses that really needed further elaboration, I noted hexbear's rules next to these comments

  • I'll probably be doing a demographics survey sometime in the future, including basic fairly anonymous stuff like "what region were you born in" "where do the languages you speak originate" "would you describe yourself as a POC" "what age range are you in".

  • The percentage of people answering they were cisgender increased by 8% than the previous survey. This could be for a myriad of reasons, such as cis people being afraid trans people will hunt them down in the public thread and assassinate them. Anonymity may have made them feel safer to respond. Regardless, way more people responded this time, which signifies that people felt safer responding to the cryptpad or it was easier to do. The leading question was a bit more inclusive than last time, but I think I'll include both questions (are you transgender / gender diverse and are you cisgender) to see how people respond.

  • We have a lot of people that aren't binary trans on this site.

  • Some of the questions were pretty funky and we got a lot of fuzzy responses on them as a result. In particular "After you realized you were trans/gender diverse, how long did it take for you to begin to act on it?" and "At what age did you begin transition?" caused a lot of friction, I think I will ask more vague questions in the future that lead to a path of more specific questions to capture better data, and to save people time. Questions like "Do you feel your gender transition had a defined starting point?" and some further ones.

  • Around 20 people each week on this site are cis she/hers, which is very low and roughly the same as last time. I feel like if hexbear ever starts hosting other federated stuff (like a federated tiktok or something) and can hook into it natively with lemmy, we'd see a better ratio.

  • I tried to be very sure any data with >2 people on it was clearly legible, I think some people might find it fun that there are others with their same fairly specific classifications per this survey lurking around on the site.

  • Overall I feel like the survey was a success despite some bumps.

  • You can find the other surveys/links here: https://hexbear.net/post/3016455

  • I made these graphs on company time bridget-pride-stay-mad

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The ETR 600 is a class of trains built by Alstom, and are used on the routes between Roma-Bolzano and Roma-Trieste. The train tilts, using Pendolino technology, allowing higher speeds to be maintained through corners without causing discomfort to passengers. The trains are operated by Trenitalia, originally under the Frecciargento (Silver Arrow) branding used for trains capable of travelling between 250 km/h and 285 km/h, In 2022 they were rebranded under Frecciarossa (Red Arrow) after the Frecciargento branding was retired.

The ETR 600 has also been adapted for use in China as the China Railway CRH5 Hexie. Initially 60 sets were ordered, of which nine were manufactured by Alstom and 51 by CNR Changchun Railway Vehicles. Since, another 80 sets have been created for a total of 140, operating across China's north from Beijing to Ürümqi.


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Please answer all questions in the form below. If you cannot load the site, it's because you do not have javascript enabled or something, try a stock browser. The goal is for this to be pinned until the end of the weekend. All responses are anonymized, IP is not logged, and all responses will be made public after the questionnaire is closed. Cis people aren't shown further questions beyond the first 2.

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I've heard numerous times that transitioning makes you more susceptible to the cold, and while I do feel colder when I'm cold, it still takes alot for me to actually get cold.

I think my natural body temperature is still pretty high and I can still last for a good long while without any coat or jacket.

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I've been on E for almost 5 months now and one of the things I didn't expect from it is that wow, everything in the world is really pretty now! The sky looks nice! The trees are great! I never loved the changing colors of the fall leaves before but they're so much prettier than they were before? I need to spend more time in nature now, this is great! Is this something anyone else has ever felt?

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I don't know if any CW are required for this but if so suggest them and I will add. I'm not mentioning any particular hateful things; just the presence of them.


An old comrade of mine has fallen into the grips of anti trans bigotry.

It has been happening for 10+ years and I have raised the issue multiple times when we've been together or in touch. They downplayed their investment in the ideas.

Recently I have learned that it has crept into their mass organizing. This person is an excellent, committed, powerful organizer working for years at a local level.

I think they are now getting in to organizing explicitly on anti-trans grounds. They have capacity to be highly effective at this. But really it is the integration of anti-trans stuff into legitimate mass organizing work that is more dangerous. My understanding is that they are seeking to orient these orgs against the interests of trans people and to exclude trans people and even trans-allied people from organizing.

This person made many key political contributions to who I am. Much of the good I have done as an organizer is due to their influence on me. Without them I would have ended up the most insufferable kind of lib. On a personal level, it breaks my heart to see this has happened to a dear friend. I feel compelled to attempt to return the wisdom and patience they afforded me when I needed it, and offer them a better perspective, help them be a better organizer.

I plan to attempt intervention. We live far away from each other but do keep occasional contact. Less so over recent years just due to being on different social media platforms. I could get some correspondence and maybe a phone call to discuss this on the basis of our long standing relationship. I would offer to maintain the dialogue on going if they were willing.

  • general advice?
  • have you tried this and if so how did it go?
  • is there hope?
  • some kind of FAQ covering anti-trans misinformation; more in-depth and comprehensive would be better (for me to read)
  • writing/ideas aimed specifically at communists/socialists
  • theory to understand trans* from marxist/materialist perspective
    • I know this sounds stupid but they already have theory to hate trans*
  • This person is coming at it from a TERF (as in actual old school radical feminsm) perspective, not a right-wing/fash perspective
  • The idea of "bourgeois decadence" is important here. It's not something I ever found to be very compelling so I don't have much analysis to counter it.

Of course I have my own ideas and knowledge but I'm sure all of the above has been perfected so I want to make sure I have the best at top of mind.

This person is pretty stubborn, as required to be a lifelong revolutionary. So I know I'm not going to turn the ship around in one conversation. I am considering strategy of reformism or harm reduction. For example if I could convince them to avoid bringing these ideas into their organizing, even while still holding them privately, it would be a benefit.

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When I decided to host the mega again a bit ago, I had no idea what to make it about (of course). So it fell between two topics: a post on the importance of sleep, or a post on just how much I love Fire Emblem: The Sacred Echoes. Well, I felt like the importance of sleep was well-known, and could always wait for the next time I host a mega. I wanted to make sure I hit the Sacred Echoes iron while it's hot, because I've almost finished my play through at this point, and it might genuinely be one of the best games I have ever played.

Sacred Echoes feels so polished, considering it's a fan-made romhack of Sacred Stones, with the goal of bringing the 3DS game, Shadows of Valentia (SoV), to the GBA. Everything about the game aesthetically is very well-done, from the portraits, to the battle sprites, and literally anything else that could be thought of about a game. This includes new character writing, which helps the game in areas where Shadows of Valentia was a little, well, off. That's what I want to go over first, and although I've made a post before, I had only played a little bit of the game. Being at the end, I've noticed more things, and grown to appreciate this game even more than I already did.

Let's start off with the relevant (and interesting) bits: Sacred Echoes actually does a really good job at representing a variety of backgrounds, while also being diverse in a way that doesn't feel like it's simply to have a token character. This game doesn't suffer from the cracker curse, for example. Although most of the characters are white, there is more than one person of color (congratulations) . In terms of LGBTQ+ representation, it's even better. There are many gay/lesbian characters, whose sexuality actually plays a role in the plot and how they interact with others. There's also an aroace character, Lukas, who goes through a whole arc of self-discovery in his support conversations (support Python). It's good stuff, and not things I would normally expect from a Fire Emblem game. I hesitate to bring up the (possibly) only trans character in the game, Jesse. HOLD ON, NO HESITATION AT ALL! I just decided to do more research, and I wasn't just projecting. He is 100% trans, and it's in supports, and it's relevant to his plot and backstory, so it's just like the rest of them, thank goodness, I was worried he was a token. So yeah, support Clive and Jesse. Good stuff, and good luck getting to the end of the game so they can actually meet, one fights for Alm and the other for Celica...

This is Jesse

Here's some dialogue between Clive and Jesse, in the context of a will:

Clive: Only the following will be yours - your mother's wardrobe, her jewelry box, and all corresponding contents.

Jesse: Urgh. Even from halfway in the grave he's trying to tell me what to wear. So yeah, he's still the same tyrant he always was. Hasn't changed a bit.

In terms of character background, it's more diverse than one would think, and it addresses the issue of feudal class. Not all of the characters are nobles, and one of the main characters is a commoner from a random village. The plot regularly deals with the fact that nobles and commoners do not get along. However, it does not try to redeem most nobles. If they aren't proving themselves with their actions, they're probably shitty. Even if they are supposedly "one of the good ones", there's usually some underlying prejudice that comes out when you might not expect it. I love it so much, and I am extremely impressed that the plot doesn't try to redeem nobility as a whole, but rather allows the noble characters within the cast to have character development that feels less like justification and more like re-education.

Pictured is the class traitor Lukas absolutely destroying Fernand

For other details about the story, I'll link my original post. I don't want to drag this on too long, and I mention most of the improvements there. It also includes where to find the patch for the game, and how to play the game for yourself. If you enjoy SRPGs, or are new to the genre, I recommend this game. It has an easy mode for the newbies, and hard mode for those of us who hate ourselves (/s), and a normal mode for everything in-between niko-happy

The Echoes cast is amazing, and I love how they interact with each other and the world. Each character stands out, and they feel unique in their relationships with the other characters. Even characters that suffer in SoV, like Faye and the Masked Knight (has a name but it's spoilers), benefit from the Sacred Echoes writing, making them actually enjoyable characters. The villains of the game are also great. I don't want to go too deep, because I don't want to spoil too much, but they aren't just pure evil, and for that I applaud the SoV writers. Berkut is probably the highlight of the game, being the heir to the throne of the empire. I am once again asking you to play the game, because IT IS SO GREAT, and I would not have expected these good of villains to pair with Alm and Celica, as well as their armies.

Pictured is the Masked Knight being a gay little guy. The other guy (Saber) is threatening his life...

Everything about the game design is also amazing. It's GBA Fire Emblem, so the animations are peak and the pixel art is stellar. The maps are improved from the original SoV maps, and they are definetly much better, and much less repetitive. Classes in the game are fun in how they work, each character being able to promote 2-3 times. Mages also work really uniquely and well in this game, with spells costing HP to cast. They learn spells as they level up, rather than by purchasing tomes, which makes for (in my opinion), better gameplay. Sacred Echoes also adds the GBA weapon and magic triangles!

All in all, Sacred Echoes is a great game, and even if you never ending up playing it, you now know of its existence. It stands out as a great romhack, as well as a great Fire Emblem game, AND it has the gay. Can it really get better than that?

If you want my original (and more in-depth) analysis, check out my original post. It's mostly about what Sacred Echoes improves upon the original Shadows of Valentia.

Hope you enjoyed my little nerd-out session, and have a good week everyone! niko-dance

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PATCH TO AN EXISTING SACRED STONES ROM: https://www.marcrobledo.com/RomPatcher.js/


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We were talking in tracha about doing another movie night in https://live.hexbear.net/c/traaa, and at least 2 or 3 of us want to watch, but would be cool to have a bigger group. We were thinking of watching But I'm A Cheerleader which is supposed to be pretty funny. Here's the trailer: https://youtu.be/HnUvneNxoz8

Should be fun. Also if anyone here has any other suggestions, feel free to throw them out there.

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