Snowies

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[–] Snowies@lemmy.zip 2 points 2 hours ago

I agree.

I guess there is some contextual utility since parents do “assign” gender roles to their children based on their sex, but the doctor has nothing to do with that, so I agree.

[–] Snowies@lemmy.zip 10 points 9 hours ago

Unions didn’t decline.

They’ve been systematically busted for the last 5 and a half decades.

[–] Snowies@lemmy.zip 6 points 12 hours ago (3 children)

That depends who you ask.

“Transsexual” is an antiquated term that’s considered exclusionary by some and thus bigoted in a sense, as it implies that one must experience body dysphoria and seek medical treatment to change their body’s sex traits in order to feel more comfortable with them.

“Transgender” simply refers to someone who identifies as a different gender than the one they were assigned at birth.

“Non-binary” people identify as something other than the two “genders” that are typically assigned at birth, so technically they fall under that same umbrella of transgender.

But also… we consider sex and gender to be different technically speaking. Sex is considered to be a biological thing, and gender is more of a social/cultural thing typically based on sex.

… Which would mean doctors don’t really identify (or “assign”) genders at birth, they assign sex, which kind of contradicts the notion of transgender people, aka someone who identifies as a different gender than their “assignment” at birth.

I personally think transgender is too broad a term and causes a lot of confusion, and that we’d be better served by once again referring to people as either transsexuals, or gender queer/non-binary.

It’s complicated. Some non-binary people do have body dysphoria and do seek medical care to change their body’s sex traits, while not identifying as either a man or a woman.

Unfortunately in LGBT+ spaces, it’s often seen as social suicide to make these distinctions, as when you make distinctions you necessarily make divisions and thus exclusions, which feels bad if you or someone you love is the one being excluded.

Other trans people would probably call me “Tru-scum” for thinking this, because in their minds what I’m saying is equivalent to saying “there’s transsexuals, and there’s people who play with make-up and clothes and expect other people to refer to them differently”…

Except I’m not saying that, and I don’t think gender queer or non-binary people are “playing”, or are less valid in any way.

I just see the ways that people are similar, and different, and I refuse to blind myself or bite my tongue about it.

[–] Snowies@lemmy.zip 23 points 13 hours ago (2 children)

My girlfriend thinks capitalism is fine and doesn’t care about billionaires existing.

She’s never had a minimum wage job or worked in the service industry 🙄

[–] Snowies@lemmy.zip 8 points 13 hours ago (1 children)

Become a rich jacked sociopath.

That’s most manly thing you can do apparently.

[–] Snowies@lemmy.zip 25 points 13 hours ago (3 children)

She should have been born in a comic book instead of real life.

Classic mistake.

[–] Snowies@lemmy.zip 2 points 13 hours ago* (last edited 13 hours ago) (1 children)

In the Star Wars universe celibacy is canonically heroic.

If you fuck and reproduce you’ve given someone else power over you and you’ve created your replacement/successor… almost like a Sith Lord and their Apprentice…

[–] Snowies@lemmy.zip 26 points 14 hours ago (3 children)

Don’t you have to register to vote?…

Illegal immigrants don’t even have social security numbers…

[–] Snowies@lemmy.zip 2 points 14 hours ago (1 children)

Cuz I don’t have a ring camera and I’m not watchin’ my door all day lol.

I wouldn’t know they were there until they were THERE iykwim 😅

[–] Snowies@lemmy.zip 1 points 16 hours ago

Most people on earth will never see $100,000 a year, and almost all Americans will never see $200,000 a year.

Even making $1,000,000 a year is fucking incredible and life-changing and lets you go anywhere and do almost anything you want.

Anything over that is just dick measuring money.

They are making $25,000,000 PER DAY.

A million dollars is chump change to them.

More money than we’ll ever see in our lives is chump change to them.

Currency is just quantified social power.

If someone has essentially infinite social power compared to everyone around them, there is no world in which their interests don’t directly and explicitly involve (at the very least) keeping that power.

[–] Snowies@lemmy.zip 69 points 17 hours ago (2 children)

So relevant now lol

[–] Snowies@lemmy.zip 5 points 19 hours ago (1 children)

When they’re at your door with masks, guns, tasers, and hand-cuffs, I don’t think there are any other options.

If you’re aware of one please enlighten me. Don’t say call a lawyer or present a birth certificate. People have done both and been deported anyways.

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