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[–] RememberTheApollo_@lemmy.world 10 points 1 hour ago

Third party apps being killed was the final straw. I’d participated for more than a decade, but reddit changed. The hive mind got worse, bots took over, you couldn’t really have a discussion anymore. Downvotes were default, if your comment even got engaged, with while the rest were people/bots recycling tired old quips and reposts trying to ride a karma train for internet points. Somehow reddit decided to make sure right-wing subs had free rein despite knowing bad actors and paid foreign influence were blatantly happening. Then of course there’s reddit corporate sanitizing reddit by force and cramming ads and a their shitty app down users’ throats.

Reddit used to be the Old Internet in one place, but corporate f’d that up.

[–] BoosBeau@lemmy.world 4 points 52 minutes ago

Left reddit during the API controversy a few years ago. Never been banned or anything, just disagreed with the decisions being made.

[–] ConstantPain@lemmy.world 13 points 2 hours ago

Not banned, but the app I used stopped working, and the official app is horse shit. So I just leave.

[–] win95@lemmy.zip 9 points 2 hours ago

When they killed third party apps while disregarding the need for accessibility completely - their own app doesn't even let blind people manage their own subreddit because of that.

So yeah, because I left reddit.

[–] 100_kg_90_de_belin@feddit.it 3 points 1 hour ago

I nuked my Reddit account when they dropped support for 3rd-party apps. Spez can eat a bag of dicks.

[–] D_C@sh.itjust.works 3 points 2 hours ago* (last edited 2 hours ago) (1 children)

Once the baconreader app developer stated it would stop due to API nonsense I left.

I tried another one called something like Squabbles* for a few months and really liked it, then the owner of that site decided that the racists and nazis that were joining were allowed to say what they wanted.
There were a lot of trans, gay etc, and non whites on that site who tried to reason with the owner but ultimately left due to the hostilities. The place went downhill fast and about a week later I left. It may be far better now.

I only go on Reddit now if I'm looking for info on the PC and one of the links is from there. However most of the time it doesn't give me any real info, usually it's just lots of people having the same issue I was searching an answer for.

Edit: it was called Squabbles, not Squiggles
Edit 2 Electric Boogaloo. Squabbles seems to have died a death, and I'm not surprised tbh.

[–] Speculater@lemmy.world 1 points 37 minutes ago

Another site tried to do that years ago, Voat, and like your story, died as a free speech absolutist Nazi hell hole.

[–] mojofrododojo@lemmy.world 7 points 3 hours ago (1 children)

left during the subreddit mod purges. we closed our sub - 45k~ users with lots of creative, daily content when they announced the API changes and other shittery. They demanded it reopen or they'd appoint new mods, no new mods would step forward. I left and never looked back. I probably should have left long before but the community kept me there doing the modwork.

A note: APPRECIATE YOUR MODS. They're keeping this experience trash free as much as humanly possible. There's a certain type of person that volunteers to help build good communities and they mostly deserve your appreciation.

[–] madcaesar@lemmy.world 3 points 3 hours ago (2 children)

I don't know, from what I've seen people that should be mods don't want to and those that want to shouldn't be.

It's very similar to politicans actually.

[–] mojofrododojo@lemmy.world 2 points 3 hours ago* (last edited 3 hours ago)

can't comment re: lemmy mods because I don't mod here. but. reddit and other social networks benefit incredibly - and I have no doubt lemmy as well - from the sheer mountains of trash, spam, fuckwits and bots that assail their daily content, that mods remove and you never have to see or only see for a few minutes. please stand up and volunteer to mod if you think you could help, it's certainly needed.

[–] Bloomcole@lemmy.world 1 points 2 hours ago* (last edited 2 hours ago)

They are humans and humans are biased.
I just got banned from another instance.
Vile personal attacks against me were left up, while lukewarm comments from me like: "Frace is a vasal state" got removed.
.world is not much better.

[–] Dasus@lemmy.world 1 points 1 hour ago

I got banned for implying there might be genocide going on in Gaza.

Several years ago.

"Anti-semite, you want to kill all Jews!"

Talk about "every accusation is an admission", eh?

[–] moseschrute@lemmy.zip 1 points 1 hour ago

Not banned from Reddit, but I was given a warning for suggesting big tech was unethical.

[–] krowbear@lemmy.world 1 points 2 hours ago

I got banned from one of my favorite subreddits, which made it a lot less fun over there.

[–] Bloomcole@lemmy.world 2 points 2 hours ago

A lot, the question is when.
The first wave has been getting banned since the US regime took control over it in the person of Jessica Ashoosh (2016).
And a whole lot more since the genocide in Palestine.
The slightest criticism was enough.

So I have my doubts on the large group of libs that only got banned since Trump.
They didn't care about anything but themselves and only what their government now does to them.
They are perfectly fine going back to a nice 'democratic' fascist-lite regime that only terrorises other countries while they live in their bubble.

[–] melsaskca@lemmy.ca 0 points 1 hour ago

I came here after deciding to quit reddit. I'm Canadian. I had no problems with reddit other than Trump's threats to annex (invade) Canada. I'm also joining my national brothers and sisters in the tariff boycotts.

[–] Pratai@lemmy.world 18 points 5 hours ago (1 children)

I came here as a result of them fucking over 3rd party app developers. Never once have been banned by Reddit.

[–] Thebular@lemmy.world 4 points 3 hours ago

Likewise. Then I realized how much better lemmy is than reddit and never looked back. Way higher quality content and discussions here

[–] redlemace@lemmy.world 1 points 2 hours ago

Arrived here in the process of USA boycott.

[–] OddMinus1@sh.itjust.works 24 points 7 hours ago

I escaped when they killed their API.

[–] genosidevoterz@lemmings.world 1 points 3 hours ago

I got banned from reddit and then i got banned here

[–] Zephorah@discuss.online 5 points 6 hours ago (1 children)

Reddit is repetitive and tiresome on the main subs. It’s so bot driven. There are so many ads. Spaz is a dipshit.

That said Lemmy still lacks the small, niche subs, which are still ok over there due to small numbers.

That said Lemmy will get the numbers for those niche subs if we all join and contribute.

[–] krowbear@lemmy.world 1 points 2 hours ago

Yes I'd love for the niche subs to grow more over here!

[–] Aeri@lemmy.world 9 points 7 hours ago

I came here because I needed my FIX and well, reddit banned me for saying I should be allowed to punch nazis. Permanent, appeal instantly denied, which, yikes.

[–] Wispy2891@lemmy.world 4 points 6 hours ago

I only tolerated watching reddit using the slide app, so no app = no reddit.

I deleted all my posts.

One day when browsing from a VPN they said if you want to see this page you need to login. I reluctantly login, to get an email a few hours later "your account has been permanently banned for suspicious login"

I'm not banned on Reddit. I just like the idea that a companies do not interfere in the Fediverse, or that at least we could detach from their servers.

[–] pineapplelover@lemmy.dbzer0.com 23 points 10 hours ago (1 children)

I left over 2 years ago because of the whole API thing

[–] Jackcooper@lemmy.world 7 points 8 hours ago (2 children)
[–] pineapplelover@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 6 hours ago

That sucks. I'm on Eternity for Lemmy thanks to Infinity for Reddit's nice community forking the project for Lemmy

[–] Noodle07@lemmy.world 1 points 7 hours ago

RIF ly beloved 😭

[–] Irish_@lemmy.world 2 points 6 hours ago

Banned for absolutely no reason, no reason was given. I tried to get a response multiple times, but was ignored. Can't make a new account without being automatically banned. So I refuse to go near that shithole ever again

[–] FRYD@sh.itjust.works 2 points 7 hours ago

After Reddit killed Apollo, I refused to participate and only used it for news and to see discussions about random stuff. I’d heard about Lemmy back then, but it sounded like it was Reddit for Reddit rejects which didn’t sound appealing. After the big Bluesky migration, I tried it out and I was more open to the idea of the fediverse. Lemmy ended up scratching the Reddit itch when I tried it, even though there’s a serious problem with sub discovery that I think holds it back.

[–] muusemuuse@sh.itjust.works 2 points 7 hours ago

Them killing Apollo had me pissed, but for whatever reason I put up with it, waiting for something better. People were starting to talk about Emmy and I thought that was interesting and didn’t really look into it again until I said something mean about Elon and got caught up in a ban wave.

[–] some_guy@lemmy.sdf.org 18 points 12 hours ago (1 children)

My one year anniversary was last month. Fuck Reddit shutting down Apollo and other clients. I was only a lurker, but here feels more like community and I'm pretty active.

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[–] Gsus4@mander.xyz 9 points 10 hours ago (1 children)

Reddit is a shit platform, became worse with the IPO and LLMs, but mainly, to me, the moderation is completely haphazard and the shitty posters were let loose. The inconsistency in moderation made me give up on being constructive.

Here, if you find an instance and communities with good ground rules you agree with, it works. You even have a modlog for transparency.

[–] Genius@lemmy.zip 2 points 8 hours ago

Transparency on Lemmy has some problems. Bans aren't attached to any message, so if you ban someone for the reason "This user is a Nazi pedophile who likes Coldplay", most users will just believe that. Comment removals work well, but bans can go against transparency by platforming lies from authority figures.

[–] MedicPigBabySaver@lemmy.world 8 points 11 hours ago

Fuck Reddit and Fuck Spez.

[–] Jeffool@lemmy.world 42 points 15 hours ago* (last edited 15 hours ago) (3 children)

I wasn't banned, I just came here because of their API changes like many others. I always bring up "the grass is greener where you water it," so I came here, and mod !gamedev@lemmy.world. I still view and use reddit some; it's just more popular. But I try to do my part to make the Lemmy space a little more robust.

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[–] skisnow@lemmy.ca 1 points 7 hours ago* (last edited 6 hours ago)

I’m not banned from Reddit, but I did come here out of disgust for their many many shitty policies, and their entire ethos as both a website and a company.

One of the worst parts is that all the draconian stuff they do, doesn't even seem to be effective at achieving its stated purpose.

[–] Lemminary@lemmy.world 1 points 7 hours ago

Came here originally for a pirate community in dbzero, mistakenly joined .ml, then finally joined World. Maybe PieFed is next, who knows. Never let them know your next move.

[–] spittingimage@lemmy.world 38 points 16 hours ago (6 children)

I left Reddit in disgust during the API situation. All the cool kids were coming here, so I did too.

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[–] pahulf@lemmy.world 9 points 12 hours ago (4 children)

Just joined 30 mins ago after I found out (really late) that OpenAI was using Reddit to train its LLM.

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[–] Krudler@lemmy.world 5 points 11 hours ago* (last edited 9 hours ago)

I had been sick to death of Reddit for minimum of 5 years. When Boost for Android stopped working after the API fiasco I abandoned all of my moderated subs, some I'd been running for 15+ years. I left them all in a sweep and decided to let people fight over them. I didn't give a shit anymore.

Then I got banned for a totally innocuous comment, which honestly was the push I needed to un-bookmark it and never look back.

I've been on Lemmy for 2+ years I think and although a lot of the content is re-gurgitate-it, I think overall it's better here.

edit: I didn't say it very clearly. I was on Lemmy way before my ban because I was just exhausted with R as a platform already

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