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[–] mojofrododojo@lemmy.world 2 points 12 minutes ago (1 children)

left during the subreddit mod purges. we closed our sub - 45k~ users with lots of creative, daily content when they announced the API changes and other shittery. They demanded it reopen or they'd appoint new mods, no new mods would step forward. I left and never looked back. I probably should have left long before but the community kept me there doing the modwork.

A note: APPRECIATE YOUR MODS. They're keeping this experience trash free as much as humanly possible. There's a certain type of person that volunteers to help build good communities and they mostly deserve your appreciation.

[–] madcaesar@lemmy.world 1 points 6 minutes ago

I don't know, from what I've seen people that should be mods don't want to and those that want to shouldn't be.

It's very similar to politicans actually.

[–] genosidevoterz@lemmings.world 1 points 2 minutes ago

I got banned from reddit and then i got banned here

[–] Pratai@lemmy.world 11 points 2 hours ago (1 children)

I came here as a result of them fucking over 3rd party app developers. Never once have been banned by Reddit.

[–] Thebular@lemmy.world 1 points 3 minutes ago

Likewise. Then I realized how much better lemmy is than reddit and never looked back. Way higher quality content and discussions here

[–] OddMinus1@sh.itjust.works 22 points 4 hours ago

I escaped when they killed their API.

[–] Zephorah@discuss.online 3 points 3 hours ago

Reddit is repetitive and tiresome on the main subs. It’s so bot driven. There are so many ads. Spaz is a dipshit.

That said Lemmy still lacks the small, niche subs, which are still ok over there due to small numbers.

That said Lemmy will get the numbers for those niche subs if we all join and contribute.

[–] Aeri@lemmy.world 6 points 4 hours ago

I came here because I needed my FIX and well, reddit banned me for saying I should be allowed to punch nazis. Permanent, appeal instantly denied, which, yikes.

[–] Wispy2891@lemmy.world 3 points 3 hours ago

I only tolerated watching reddit using the slide app, so no app = no reddit.

I deleted all my posts.

One day when browsing from a VPN they said if you want to see this page you need to login. I reluctantly login, to get an email a few hours later "your account has been permanently banned for suspicious login"

[–] Irish_@lemmy.world 2 points 3 hours ago

Banned for absolutely no reason, no reason was given. I tried to get a response multiple times, but was ignored. Can't make a new account without being automatically banned. So I refuse to go near that shithole ever again

I'm not banned on Reddit. I just like the idea that a companies do not interfere in the Fediverse, or that at least we could detach from their servers.

[–] pineapplelover@lemmy.dbzer0.com 20 points 7 hours ago (1 children)

I left over 2 years ago because of the whole API thing

[–] Jackcooper@lemmy.world 6 points 4 hours ago (2 children)
[–] pineapplelover@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 2 hours ago

That sucks. I'm on Eternity for Lemmy thanks to Infinity for Reddit's nice community forking the project for Lemmy

[–] Noodle07@lemmy.world 1 points 4 hours ago

RIF ly beloved 😭

[–] FRYD@sh.itjust.works 1 points 3 hours ago

After Reddit killed Apollo, I refused to participate and only used it for news and to see discussions about random stuff. I’d heard about Lemmy back then, but it sounded like it was Reddit for Reddit rejects which didn’t sound appealing. After the big Bluesky migration, I tried it out and I was more open to the idea of the fediverse. Lemmy ended up scratching the Reddit itch when I tried it, even though there’s a serious problem with sub discovery that I think holds it back.

[–] skisnow@lemmy.ca 1 points 3 hours ago* (last edited 3 hours ago)

I’m not banned from Reddit, but I did come here out of disgust for their many many shitty policies, and their entire ethos as both a website and a company.

One of the worst parts is that all the draconian stuff they do, doesn't even seem to be effective at achieving its stated purpose.

[–] muusemuuse@sh.itjust.works 1 points 3 hours ago

Them killing Apollo had me pissed, but for whatever reason I put up with it, waiting for something better. People were starting to talk about Emmy and I thought that was interesting and didn’t really look into it again until I said something mean about Elon and got caught up in a ban wave.

[–] Lemminary@lemmy.world 1 points 4 hours ago

Came here originally for a pirate community in dbzero, mistakenly joined .ml, then finally joined World. Maybe PieFed is next, who knows. Never let them know your next move.

[–] Gsus4@mander.xyz 8 points 7 hours ago (1 children)

Reddit is a shit platform, became worse with the IPO and LLMs, but mainly, to me, the moderation is completely haphazard and the shitty posters were let loose. The inconsistency in moderation made me give up on being constructive.

Here, if you find an instance and communities with good ground rules you agree with, it works. You even have a modlog for transparency.

[–] Genius@lemmy.zip 1 points 4 hours ago

Transparency on Lemmy has some problems. Bans aren't attached to any message, so if you ban someone for the reason "This user is a Nazi pedophile who likes Coldplay", most users will just believe that. Comment removals work well, but bans can go against transparency by platforming lies from authority figures.

[–] some_guy@lemmy.sdf.org 16 points 9 hours ago (1 children)

My one year anniversary was last month. Fuck Reddit shutting down Apollo and other clients. I was only a lurker, but here feels more like community and I'm pretty active.

The great api killing was the largest lemmy jump I believe

[–] MedicPigBabySaver@lemmy.world 8 points 8 hours ago

Fuck Reddit and Fuck Spez.

[–] Jeffool@lemmy.world 38 points 12 hours ago* (last edited 12 hours ago) (3 children)

I wasn't banned, I just came here because of their API changes like many others. I always bring up "the grass is greener where you water it," so I came here, and mod !gamedev@lemmy.world. I still view and use reddit some; it's just more popular. But I try to do my part to make the Lemmy space a little more robust.

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[–] carlossurf@lemmy.ca 3 points 7 hours ago

Me fuck reddit mods, bunch of basement dwelling nerds with nothing in life

[–] Krudler@lemmy.world 4 points 8 hours ago* (last edited 5 hours ago)

I had been sick to death of Reddit for minimum of 5 years. When Boost for Android stopped working after the API fiasco I abandoned all of my moderated subs, some I'd been running for 15+ years. I left them all in a sweep and decided to let people fight over them. I didn't give a shit anymore.

Then I got banned for a totally innocuous comment, which honestly was the push I needed to un-bookmark it and never look back.

I've been on Lemmy for 2+ years I think and although a lot of the content is re-gurgitate-it, I think overall it's better here.

edit: I didn't say it very clearly. I was on Lemmy way before my ban because I was just exhausted with R as a platform already

[–] pahulf@lemmy.world 7 points 9 hours ago (4 children)

Just joined 30 mins ago after I found out (really late) that OpenAI was using Reddit to train its LLM.

[–] some_guy@lemmy.sdf.org 5 points 9 hours ago

Welcome in from the cold. We have hot cocoa and blankets.

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[–] spittingimage@lemmy.world 35 points 13 hours ago (6 children)

I left Reddit in disgust during the API situation. All the cool kids were coming here, so I did too.

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[–] TheFermentalist@reddthat.com 2 points 7 hours ago

I left reddit a little over two years ago. The API debacle was the end, though I had been mostly offline for a few months prior.

The fediverse has only gotten better since. However, this is my fourth account. I joined vlemmy, which disappeared overnight, then lemm.ee, which shut down recently, then another instance which wasn’t for me, and now reddthat. I also signed up for hexbear after a few beers, forgot my password, haven’t been able to contact the mods, didn’t use an email address and haven’t been able to get back in since.

[–] Horsey@lemmy.world 3 points 8 hours ago* (last edited 8 hours ago)

2 years into the fediverse; left during the IPO enshittification nonsense when they removed public access APIs and made Apollo impossible.

[–] LucidNightmare@lemmy.dbzer0.com 13 points 12 hours ago

Left because of Apollo shutting down. Thanks, Voyager devs, for recreating that experience on a different platform. :-]

[–] jumping_redditor@sh.itjust.works 14 points 12 hours ago

left because of api changes and their increasing censorship of content they don't like (I miss r/all having r/eyeblech).

[–] HollowNaught@lemmy.world 8 points 11 hours ago

I stopped using reddit after the api changes, and started using lemmy after about a year of going cold turkey

[–] Bwaz@lemmy.world 5 points 10 hours ago

Left reddit when the API nonsense was coming and the site had gotten so bad in general.

[–] turtlesareneat@discuss.online 2 points 8 hours ago

Banned there for "inciting political violence" but then discovered you can get banned across multiple communities or whole servers here because a mod gets their feelings hut.

So, idk. Just trying to get used to the idea of not telling stranger my opinions on things, it seems weird.

[–] audaxdreik@pawb.social 51 points 16 hours ago (4 children)

Dropped Reddit cold turkey when they closed the API.

It was an adjustment at first, but I do feel like the ecosystem has continued to grow and evolve, as well as me just adapting to what was on offer better.

I still never purposefully visit Reddit, but sometimes I just end up there from search results or links and it gives me the ick.

[–] Ugurcan@lemmy.world 1 points 3 hours ago

It’s Turkiye* now.

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[–] Sho@lemmy.world 6 points 11 hours ago

Left Reddit after they killed third party apps ( R.I.P RiF) and haven't looked back. That site is dead to me.

[–] weeeeum@lemmy.world 17 points 14 hours ago

Came here after API changes because I hold a grudge and I refuse to use the app again. Genuinely fucking unusable, all of the recent reviews are 1 or 2 star

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