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[–] Deceptichum@sh.itjust.works 10 points 11 months ago (1 children)

This is where you disown them and move on with your life. Can’t fix stupid, but you can not reward it with your presence and maybe it’ll reconsider.

[–] Weges@lemmy.world 6 points 11 months ago (2 children)

Gentle reminder that generally nothing happens when cutting specific people out of your life. If you want to make people change, having a connection helps more than anything else.

[–] Deceptichum@sh.itjust.works 7 points 11 months ago

Gentle reminder, not everyone is capable of change. Put yourself first sometimes and move on to a less toxic life.

[–] lars@lemmy.sdf.org 4 points 11 months ago

Big if true. But it’s not for me. Don’t let people you don’t live with get away with shit because you share ancestors or a past.